YOU’VE GOT TO GET YOUR HEAD TOGETHER – Powerful Motivational Speech Video Compilation
you can allow yourself to go through
whatever you’re going through right now
to reemerge on the right timetable as a
strong aversion to yourself
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plant trees under whose shade you do not
plan to sit all right plant trees under
whose shade you do not plan to sit
selfless service giving without
expecting using everything you have
doing something for nothing just being
able to give a real man doesn’t need
another man to tell him how to be a man
that’s the furthest thing from the truth
there’s no other way to learn how to be
a man except through other men who have
gone before because there’s a difference
between masculinity and manliness
masculinity is raw it’s just the raw
masculine testosterone and other
hormones coursing through our veins that
determine that level of masculinity
manliness however is taking it refining
it and and in producing effective
outcomes trying to get insight and see
life as a puzzle and your goal in life
is to seek the adventures that piece the
puzzle together when you’re coming out
of these down spots these dark spots
these slumps you’ve got to allow the
process to happen watch it unfold you
have to be prepared to take any and
every opportunity that’s presented to
you
all right nothing’s just gonna happen
you know everybody say it’s all on you
it is all on you there’s other people
that can educate you and help you but
you take these different experiences
that you learn that stick with you I
mean you may not remember a whole lot
when you were 4 years old but there’s
certain memories there’s certain things
you can use them to either harness you
to greatness or you can use them to kind
of just keep you where you’re at so the
bhagavad-gita says that attachment and
aversion or two sides of the same coin
so actually the ideal is the sensual
balance where you’re able to talk to
your parents you’re able to give them
love you’re able to be grateful but then
again you’re still realizing that
there’s more impact you can have in the
world than just making a parent
Steve Jobs said he didn’t want to be the
richest man in the graveyard you know do
you want to be the richest man in the
graveyard I want to be the happiest man
on the way to the graveyard there’s
always a next level your definition of
greatness and what you want achieve
could be totally different than somebody
else’s you know we always say no one
wants to be first okay because they’re
afraid of the consequences that come
with doing something first because what
it means to be a man first of all is
somebody who takes accountability
responsibility for himself and those he
had an obligation thing you don’t start
at a place where you have self-awareness
self-actualization you have figured out
what works for you what your strengths
are how you want to be in an environment
when you walk out there most of us just
pretend to be someone else so you’re not
the same version yourself you can’t
expect yourself to be who you were
during the last cycle
it won’t happen you have new experiences
you’re older your physiology changes but
the ego like you referred to wants to
attach to what was you had a great year
last year but let it go because it’s no
longer you’re not that person anymore
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the grinding and working hard and
hustling is not what you optimize for
its pain why would you optimize for pain
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they want to see what will people do
when real crap happens when you’re
threatened when you read risk how good
could you be and sometimes I think
people they I more than thinking I feel
it that they want to be touch fighting
they want to be touched by it that maybe
maybe it’ll be absorbed by them
maybe maybe someone to go into their
veins that they could be better they
think it watch these noble warriors and
when they do it right they that’s what
they are they go watch them and say
maybe I could be better
maybe my choices could be better
stronger maybe I could make better
decisions then next time instead of
making a weak decision and screwing
somebody
I love to say people with excuses are
afraid to work hard I’d love to say that
an excuse gives you a reason to stop
working hard and what we know about
anyone ever worth writing an article
about is that they worked until they
drop to the point of alienating people
around them and if you are a user of
excuses you’ll never work that hard our
habits are the way that you embody an
identity right so like each time you
make your bed you embody the identity of
someone who is clean and organized each
time you go to the gym you embody the
identity of someone who’s fit each time
you sit down to write your body the
identity of a writer so you can sort of
think of it as like each behavior casts
a vote for the type of person that you
want to become your goal in business and
in life on the important things is to
make three mistakes per million
transactions in the only way you do that
is by being a perfectionist in terms of
double-check the truth is very concise
the words are very few but people don’t
want to hear the truth as the truth
hurts okay but you grow from pain you
really you really do you can’t know how
to deal with success you can’t not deal
with failures you can’t know how to deal
with the bumps in the road that if you
haven’t had a taste of everything
you know people think oh you just facing
a guy with a left – no you’re not you’re
facing yourself
that’s the magic that’s what people want
say oh this guy’s face um can I face
myself something you’re facing Janna
Bishop Heelan securities
all the stuff that’s been laid on you
through the years that you’re trying to
get rid of you hope you could get rid of
we create barriers and I firmly believe
half or more of those constraints that
stop us from taking big risks we take on
knowing they’re going to be reasons
later we can say no that would be a bad
risk I don’t take that risk whatever
that new career twist might be instead
of embracing it and laughing and
learning when you fall down occasionally
we’re back to learning from failure
because young people need to know that
falling on your face is a hundred
percent predictable and for the smart
people it’s what they learn from that
later makes them fall far less
frequently than everyone else think
someone thinks I’m confident I feel
confident but if someone thinks if I
think someone thinks I’m not confident
than I don’t feel confident now people
are so far removed
own understanding of themselves that
they were either lost living a life they
didn’t want to lost living up to someone
else’s expectations or lost becoming
someone to impress someone else and so
people were there their real identity is
almost buried under six feet of multiple
identities they’ve created there’s not
other people that are holding you back
your bosses are holding you back your
parents are holding you back those are
excuses to me there’s no such thing as
luck okay all luck is preparation
meeting opportunity plain and simple
Gandhi said you find yourself when you
lose yourself in the service of others
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so if you’re watching this and you feel
lost it’s better to just sit down and be
like I’m lost because the day you admit
you’re lost is the day you allow
yourself to be found by people who can
give you a tip the wisdom and right now
man
the wisdom of your body says allow the
process to happen and get familiar and
disciplined and committed with your
rituals
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there’s a lot there’s a lot of people
that are just a something there’s very
few people that are V something
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