WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE GIVING UP – Best Motivational Speech Video
fail early fail often fail forward you have to actually seek failure failure is where all of the lessons are gotta take a shot you have to live at the edge of your capabilities you gotta live where you’re almost certain you’re gonna fail successful people fail a lot they fail a whole lot more than they succeed but they extract the lessons from the failure and they use that the energy and they use the wisdom to come around to the next phase of success and within that war we have several battles those battles are basic choices this practice is controlled failure you’re getting to your limit getting to your limit getting to your limit talking about a war that’s in your brain that war exists because life has so many choices within those choices you gotta make right decisions so guess what when you fail one person to blame is yourself and recognizing that one of the best things we can do for everyone reminding them that it’s true that being happy is the best way to elicit change if you haven’t made it fun if you haven’t made it cool why would anyone take the curriculum from your school on how to live life i would think twice from listening to the person who goes back home and hates their job and hates their relationship and really wants to get out of everything that they did for the last 10 years but hasn’t yet found the strength within themselves to do it see we think our mind’s job is to make us happy it really isn’t it’s to make us survive and how we survive is every time we say something that would kill me i’d die if that happened the mind goes on red alert to stop it happening because your mind will always remember what hurts you because its job is to keep you alive by making sure you don’t get hurt but it doesn’t know what hurts you until you say that last boyfriend broke my heart shredded it to pieces and jumped on it but we tell ourselves all this crazy stuff and they wonder why we feel so crazy when all we have to do is tell ourselves better stuff your awareness is like a flashlight you can direct your awareness to wherever you want right now most of us are shining the flashlight of our awareness on what could happen when is all this going to end what will happen to my job how about my finances what about my loved ones will i become sick so we’re shining the flashlight of our awareness of all of the things that could happen you have a way out shine the flashlight of your awareness on what can i do right now what is it that lies at hand that what can i do [Laughter] we know that you grow in strength in proportion to your willingness to voluntarily confront sequential challenges okay so we know that if you optimally challenge yourself you develop and then the question is well what do you develop into and the answer that is something like well you develop into what you could be and the question is well what could you be the answer to that is something like well you could be the full revelation of your potential at any given moment there could be calamity or tragedy what i can’t see the unknown is fear in me because we project into the unknown based on our past experience and so if you walk through the world fearing this then you’re going to project into the unknown fearing that life is sea between b and d like this c between b and d b stands for birth and d stands for death c is choice that right now difficult times that we are facing right now these difficult times can they could diminish you they could define you these difficult times can defeat you or these difficult times can develop you you decide we always have choice and decision if the background of life is is there’s a there’s an inerratical component of suffering and that’s complicated by let’s say malevolence and the proclivity of people to betray themselves and others which complicates it makes it worse if you don’t have a noble aim and if that isn’t imbuing your life with sustainable meaning then you fall prey to all the catastrophe this pain and the anxiety and the anger that that suffering generates and that makes you bitter these are words that really affect our reality partly because it’s such an easy thing to say every word you say is a blueprint that your mind body and psyche are working to make your reality this happened to you it wasn’t good this happened to you it wasn’t this happened to you it wasn’t good fix it fix it fix it fix it that will never go away unless you fix it how was it that that situation goes to pull you down but you but if you face it and you and you meditate on it that’s it and saying you do this voluntarily there’s a pretty high probability that you’ll be able to decrease the probability that will be repeated in the future we are going through a metamorphosis a change a transformation had you come out of this cocoon stronger had you come out of this cocoon better i recognize that in yours life doesn’t give you anything that you aren’t strong enough to overcome strong enough to turn your pain into your purpose and become the one that can have a unique message that goes out to an audience that is uniquely yours who wants to hear your voice wants to see the choice that you made to overcome the same types of behavior that they experienced so they don’t feel so alone you are who you’ve been looking for so stop looking for more unless you’re looking in a mirror because it’s about time for you to see clearly that you are who you’ve been looking for you see we live in a consumerist society which means they need you to buy stuff and the easiest way to sell it is to tell you you’re not enough treat yourself like someone you love you are already enough so start today take a good long look in the mirror and say i am who i’ve been looking for you