WHEN LIFE BREAKS YOU – 2020 Motivational Video
why did you live your whole life I
thought it was wrong
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but you were chosen to do
something else
and you didn’t do it
what would your life be like as you look
toward the future if you decided I’m not
going to allow my fears to stop me
it was close I get to her and I’m more
confident once I’m in the ring I’m a god
no one could beat me and discipline
doing what you hate to do but do like
you love it
you gotta be hungry I feel I was born to
fight because I have no other interest
in anything else anybody is a fighter in
their own right you’re a fighter I’m a
fighter everyone that’s in this room a
newspaperman a fighter but everybody
don’t get up every morning a run anybody
don’t go to the gym every morning hey
buddy don’t have enough discipline to
wait in the locker room for two hours or
three hours then go in the ring and do
what they’ve been taught all those years
in the gym and so that’s what separates
a champion
I’m a mediocre that
so ladies and gentlemen if you want to
make your dream become reality the
people that are running at the fries
know that it’s possible that you can
live your dream that’s it’s necessary
that you’re relentless that you have a
plan of action that you are creative the
people that are living their dream of
finding winners to attach themselves to
the people that are living their dreams
of a people that know that is if it’s
going to happen it’s up to them and
they’re resolving within themselves it’s
not over until our win the people that
are running after that dream know
they’re gonna have hard times they keep
on running because they’re saying within
themselves I’m the one I’m the one no
matter how bad it is or how bad it gets
I’m going to make it the people that are
running after their dreams of a people
that are hungry shake somebody’s head on
your right and left and say you got to
be hungry
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then if you want to paint bad enough to
go out and fight for it to work day and
night for it to give up your time your
peace and your sleep for if all that you
dream and scheme is about it and life
seems useless and worthless without it
and if you gladly sweat for it and
fretboard and plan for it and lose are
your terror of the opposition for it and
if you’ll simply go after that thing
that you want with all of your capacity
strength and sagacity Faith Hope and
confidence and stern pertinacity if
neither cold poverty dam is your own
sickness of pain of body and brain can
keep you away from the thing that you
want if dogged and grim you beseech and
beset it with the help of God you’ll get
it do it because of your dog
life is not a whoop you until you
surrender we all have goals the problem
is I’ve said before in this program is
that we’re unconscious in the use of our
resources
most people’s goals are to cope pay the
lousy bills or to get by or to survive
or get out of debt or make it through
the day make the relationship a little
better get a better job and short
they’re caught up in the trap of making
a living rather than designing a life
remember that our goals affect us
whatever they are if we don’t
consciously plant the seeds of what we
want in the gardens of our minds we’ll
end up with weeds if we want to discover
the unlimited possibilities within us we
must find a goal big enough and grand
enough to challenge us to push beyond
our limits and discover our true
potential
remember that your current conditions do
not reflect your ultimate potential but
rather the size and the quality of the
goals upon what you’re currently
focusing we all must discover or create
a magnificent obsession here’s my
reasons because I want the energy to
really make my life work because it’s
tough out there and I want to be
stronger than I’ve ever been before I
want to go in front of a mirror and if
I’m naked not
don’t want to laugh I will look there
and take a good look and go yeah I’m
proud of whatever I see there
whatever it takes something’s gonna make
you laugh smile something that’s gonna
tease yourself but someone’s gonna move
you to another level if you identify
yourself in a new way and you own that
every day and that becomes the standout
you live you’ll find the way to make
that standard real money’s the same way
think about it doesn’t matter what’s
happening quote-unquote in the
marketplace people that make money find
a way to make money no matter what don’t
they I mean most people’s standard is to
pay their bills so that’s what most
people find a way to do even when
economic times get tough most people if
that’s their absolute standard they find
what some people’s standard is pay their
bills most of the time and so most the
time they do some people standard is not
just to pay their bills but to take care
of their family and maybe even some of
their friends and they find a way in
fact even if some people may be in a
family where they don’t have enough
money to barely have money to pay their
bills they work their guts out and then
somebody their mother their father or
somebody else their sister gets ill and
there’s not enough money to take care of
it nobody else has money in family they
don’t either but they find a way to get
that money to take care of their mother
or father don’t they and they their
bells they never could do it before why
the situation made them raise their own
standard and not everybody does that
somebody else in the family might have
money and still don’t take care of their
mother it all comes down to the inner
game my friends changing your life is a
change in the inner game the outside
world you can’t control but you have
absolute control of this one if you
learn the dynamics of what shapes you
and identity is one of those simple
clear fundamental basics that if you
start to shift it everything else will
shift in your life as well some people
by the way have to have more than enough
money to do what they want when they
want where they want with whomever they
want contribute the way they want and
that’s there must they find a way I know
that sounds overly simplistic but it’s
true now somebody once said you can take
all the money in the world
the hands of everybody out of all the
wealthy people in the world who are
really successful giving other people it
wouldn’t take too long those people have
it back in their hands it’s not because
they’re manipulatives because they have
a standard some are manipulate don’t get
me wrong but they’ve got a standard of
what they’re gonna find a way to make
happen I’m just simply saying to you
take those three magic words and live
them raise your standard if you really
want to do it but I’ll take the most
important secret have you ever done this
have you ever told yourself you’re
raising your standard okay I’m gonna go
make this happen I’m gonna go make this
much money I’m gonna transform my kids
I’m gonna create the ultimate
relationship with my life I’m gonna
transform my body whatever it is and
then you don’t have strong enough
reasons and you know lose use it you
don’t follow through it’s because you
didn’t back up your standards with what
makes those standards real and that’s
rituals all the results in your life are
coming from your rituals they start with
a standard and then have rituals that
follow it up like for example if you are
where you want to be physically you have
very different rituals than if you’re
not where you want to be physically if
you’re overweight you and I both know
you got a different ritual than if
you’re physically fit completely
different you get up in the morning
what’s the first thing you do if you’re
fit your shoes are there you roll over
the minute you feel you put on your
shoes you lace and you start walking or
whatever that ritual is if you’re
overweight you roll over and you have a
very different ritual you might roll
over several times the turn the alarm
clock off you go in and get your local
smoker whatever you know special coffee
stop by at Starbucks or over the case
maybe you have your nice sugar muffin
you know it’s supposed to be really nice
free whatever you do it’s a different
ritual if you have a great passionate
relationship you have very different
rituals and how you come home that if
you have a lousy relationship we come
home and the first thing you do is
you’re tweeting somebody or you’re
emailing or flipping on the news or you
don’t even come home now what are the
rituals whenever I study people that are
successful while I look for is what’s
the standard they hold himself to and
then what are all those little rituals
that up because think about it
success and failure are not giant events
they don’t just show up you don’t just
suddenly become successful or suddenly
have this cataclysmic event that makes
you fail may look that way but failure
comes from all the little things its
failure to make the call its failure to
check the books its failure to say I’m
sorry its failure to push yourself to do
things physically that you don’t want to
do and all those little failures day
after day come together until one day
some Cataclysm event happens you blame
Matt that event happened because you
missed all the little stuff get gree
with me and success by the way is not
some overnight event it’s all these
little things success is having a vision
success is making it compelling success
is really seeing and feeling it every
day of strong enough reasons success is
feeling the sense that I’m here to grow
and I’m here to give something to the
world more than just myself don’t let
this year be like last and if last year
was great still don’t let it be that way
raise the standard your life is perfect
and extraordinary you darn well know
you’re not gonna be happy unless you
keep making it better that’s what makes
us feel live it’s not what we get that
make us happy it’s who we become and
what we’re able to give because we’ve
become more
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easy it’s not an option it’s hard living
life is hard as you go through the
challenges of life and you look at it
and embrace whatever comes to you don’t
run from it step toward it don’t try and
duck it like most people do see most
people want it easy see if you either
come easy what easy go see but when you
go out what you’re going to deal with
and you deal with the difficult
difficulties of it when you handle those
hard things close at hand making those
hard decisions right now
that you don’t want to make learning
those things that you don’t like to do
but you know that in order for you to
get where you want to go this is one of
the hoops that you have to flip through
and I’m saying to you whatever you got
to do do it because if you don’t life is
gonna whip you until you surrender so if
it’s hard to do it hard now what do you
how do you hang in there during the hard
difficult times less you must have faith
you’ve got to believe in yourself you’ve
got to believe in your abilities you got
to believe in your service your company
your ideas unquestionably you got to
have faith and that faith gives you
patience then it’s not going to happen
as quickly as you want it to happen a
lot of things gonna happen that will
catch you off guard and so therefore
you’ve got to deal with and handle it as
it comes and not only that but that
faith and patience drives you into
action you got to keep moving and keep
plugging away when you’re working at
your dream somebody said the heart of
the battle the sweeter the victory
always sweet to you it’s good for your
wife see when you win it’s harder
there’s a struggle see what you become
in the process is more important agree
that’s far more important the kind of
person you become the character that you
built the courage that you develop the
faith that you’re manifesting oh it’s
it’s something that you get up in the
morning you look yourself in the mirror
you’re a different kind of person you
walk with a different kind of spirit and
people know that you know what life is
that you have embrace life you know it’s
hard but you did it hard you gotta love
it ladies and gentlemen you gotta love
it it’s gotta be what you are supposed
to do you do what it is you supposed are
you supposed to build something you
supposed to clean something I don’t know
how to do it learn do whatever is
required just go out there it’s possible
you can get what you are it’s necessary
if you want it you got to go into action
you got to be willing to experiment you
got to be willing to fail them to
succeed you got to be willing to form
into develop new relationships it’s you
it’s on you you got to make that happen
nobody’s gonna bring it to you on a
silver platter said here’s your dream
manifested no it’s hard
yes it’s hard it’s difficult yes right
and it’s worth it for us to begin to
look at the future know that it’s
possible that we can have our dream yes
it is other people have done it then we
can do it we fail a lot of times where a
lot of other folks fail and eventually
they came back and they succeeded so
it’s possible we can have what we want
and we know that we want to get it it’s
necessary that we align ourselves with
people that think like we do it’s
necessary we get- do nothing people out
of our lives it’s necessary we never
stop learning and growing and developing
ourselves it’s necessary that we never
give up we know that it’s you it’s me
it’s being responsible to our stuff and
deciding that we’re going to keep on
keeping on that we’re going to find a
way to win or find a way to make it
happen and we know it’s hard it’s not
going to be a picnic yes it’s hard it’s
hard and we will do it hard and once we
do it hard when we go through we realize
it was worth it and once you discover it
was worth it
it is done well here’s what I’m
suggesting to you that when you’re
working you have a wall to break through
and we’ve all had experiences where we
were working on something
and we knew it was possible and we did
those things that were necessary to
bring it into a reality
we took the responsibility to make it
happen although people couldn’t see it a
lot of people didn’t believe it you were
attacked you were criticized people were
opposing you but you kept on doing it it
was hard it was rough it was difficult
but to you it was worth it and
eventually you got to a level you know
can nothing stop me now I’m on the move
take ownership for your life nobody can
live your dream for you but you nobody’s
gonna take care of your business like
you stop coming up with excuses don’t
give yourself permission to continue to
live a small life you can’t fit a big
dream into a small life give yourself
permission to go for it to test yourself
to challenge yourself to live fool like
the saying always strive to get on top
of life because it’s the bottom that’s
overcrowded the reason you’re here is
because there’s something in you that
says I can do more this just can’t be it
there’s something in you there’s a
calling on your life because there’s
something in you that tells you this is
not it for you you have not peaked in
there’s more in you that you’re
expressing is not seen here is not her
North entered the Manhart of mankind
what’s in store for you if you challenge
yourself if you persist and persevere if
you take ownership for your life create
what you want you have the power you to
do the more than you can ever begin to
imagine to control your destiny to make
a difference in our children to make a
difference on the planet to make an
impact what all the people are giving up
feeling like victims feeling powerless
becoming negative turning on each other
rather than to each other feeling that
they can’t make it Behe not conformed to
this world but be ye transformed by the
renewing the
your mind with the mindset of that it’s
possible that we can save this
generation it’s possible that we can
create new industries a new economy it’s
possible that I can find a new
profession a new job it’s possible I can
create a new life and it’s necessary
that I become actively involved in
becoming a positive force in my life and
on the planet and it’s me yes it’s you
it’s all of us pulling together working
together to create this brand new future
and it’s going to be hard easy is not an
option
but if it’s hard we will do it hard
whatever is required to snatch victory
from the jaws of defeat and it’s worth
it yes it’s worth whatever we have to do
and once we know that it is done it is
done
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