Wayne Dyer – How To Attract Exactly What You Want (Wayne Dyer Motivation)
if you are what you think about then you
have to start getting real careful about
what you think about now you have to
start this with being cautious about
every conversation that you have with
your friends with your relatives with
your mother with your husband with your
children that focuses on what’s missing
in your life because if you want to
attract something into your life
something good something grand something
God like something prosperous something
of well-being you know health whatever
it might be if you want to attract that
into your life but you’re talking about
what’s missing and thinking about what’s
missing and you understand that what you
think about is what expands you will
continue to expand more of what’s
missing and you’ll continue to attract
what’s missing in your life I never talk
about what’s missing in my life I only
put my attention on what I intend to
create and I have shifted it and I
learned this lesson a long time ago but
the place that it probably expresses it
better than any is Esther and Jerry
Hicks book ask and it is given the
teachings of Abraham is called learning
to manifest your desires have more than
anything I think they’re the greatest
among the really greatest teachings on
the planet today and I know Esther and
Jerry I know them well I’ve been with
them on many occasions it’s about
practicing this idea of not putting your
thoughts on what is missing and shifting
it to it’s on its way it’s on its way
it’s on its way forwards just get them
tattooed someplace inside of you
whatever it is that you would like to
attract into your life know that it’s on
its way
and I want to say to you that as you
begin to get your thoughts more
harmonized with dhow thinking that is
with the thinking of the source thinking
of God that which always has been that
which does nothing but leaves nothing
undone as you begin to more and more
nice in this way what happens is that
you start elevating your thoughts so
that the habit of how you think becomes
more harmonized rather than a polarity
with what you want to attract it becomes
harmonized with it and it becomes your
natural way of how you think all the
time and you start then beginning to
teach your children the same way of
thinking so you just catch them when
they start saying things like Oh with my
luck it won’t work out why have any of
us ever learn to say with my luck and
having it mean things aren’t going to
work out why wouldn’t you say and just
have it as your habit with my luck it’ll
probably show up faster than it normally
does well why not have that kind of a
way because what here’s what happens as
you begin to shift the way that you
think and have an anticipation that this
thing is going to work out for you you
can only act upon your thoughts and as
you as you get these higher and higher
thoughts what happens is that that the
thought is now more aligned with what it
is you want to attract and then you
start acting upon that thought and as
you start acting upon the thought that
it will work out that it’s probably on
its way you start to see how this whole
system all works in other words call it
the universe whatever you begins to
conspire with you it begins to act
almost so in where you suddenly become a
collaborator with fate and instead of
fate being something that just might or
might not happen to you you’re in
collaboration with what it is that you
want to attract I mean ask any physician
there’s physicians here today ask them
about something called the will to live
ask them about somebody who’s going in
for a corneal transplant and thinks that
I’m going to see when this thing is done
rather than someone who thinks it
probably won’t work out and which one
would they rather
with what is this thing called the will
to live what is this thing this inner
kind of thing that says I refuse to
allow myself to think I say to my mother
who’s 90 years old 90 almost 91 years
old I was with her for the last five
days every day all morning long with him
and she’s been going through some
difficulties and so on most of you saw
her on the PBS show if you saw the
inspiration she has always said to me
how she was going to die she said it to
me when she was sixty what her death was
going to look like what she was going to
die in her sleep and it was going to be
you know it was going to be a peaceful
thing and she was going to do it when
she was ready when she was ready she
would leave and she would know when it
was time and she says and don’t think
it’s time I said well you got a hangnail
there maybe we should just move on but
this you know I’ll tell you when I’m
ready but she she has always said I will
never allow Alzheimer’s into my life
she’s always said that is not something
she still say things like well I can’t
remember this name quite as well as I
did before but but but that concept of
all it’s just not anything that I’ve
ever allowed myself to think is a
possibility and I said well what if
you’re wrong she’ll say well who’ll know
the difference and we’ve done research
on this you know in studies on
gerontology with what does your life
look like from 60-plus versus what does
your life look like below from 60 down
to into your 20s that people who live a
dynamic life into their 60 70s 80s and
90s people who feel strong who don’t
feel that getting older means that I
have to in any way decline any place
physically or mentally getting older has
nothing to do with the concept of
declining that when people are in their
20s and 30s and 40s and 50s and this
is their perception of what their life
is going to be like when they’re in
their sixties that those people have a
much greater chance much greater chance
of not attracting the kinds of diseases
that are so much age-related as do
people who think of old as infirm and
declining throughout their 20s 30s 40s
and 50s
that you change the way you believe
about that and you say declining is not
a possibility I don’t think about what’s
missing you don’t put your attention on
what’s missing
you don’t tell other people about what’s
missing and you don’t tell other people
about what you can’t do and what what
isn’t working and how terrible the world
is and the dow teaches so much about so
much of it as it was written for leaders
people in positions of power but I’ve
translated all of that into your own
level of leadership and the great
leaders the great leaders are the ones
who issue violence you have got to get
yourself to a place where you don’t
allow yourself to have violent thoughts
come into your consciousness that means
you got to watch the movies you’re
watching that means the games that your
children are playing video games have
got to be monitored and removed when
they have violence built into them it
means that you don’t watch the news and
you don’t read the stories endlessly
reaffirming what a terrible place this
world is it is not a terrible place it’s
a perfect place it’s a beautiful place
there are just some leaders who are
connected to Dow and others who are not
and we can create the kind of world that
we want to create when enough of us
begin to say not part of my
consciousness nope I don’t buy gossip no
I don’t buy violence no I don’t have
anything to do with that and you just
turn the channel you turn it off I pick
up a time magazine when I get on a
flight and I go through and I say I
won’t read the stories that involve
killing I won’t read this I don’t need
to hear any more about any more people
blowing themselves up I don’t need to
continue to have that
as a part of my consciousness because I
want to be someone who radiates out
god-realized thinking that’s what I want
to do and I can’t do that if I’m
constantly being imbued with that so I
just go through the pages page and
usually I say I’ll just threw away
another $4.95 there’s nothing in it to
read every once in a while good story
about maybe Tiger Woods or something but
by and large there’s not much in there
and you don’t have to fill yourself with
that kind of energy so you don’t put
your thoughts are on what’s missing you
don’t put your thoughts on what always
has been you don’t put your thoughts on
what others want for you unless you want
more of what others want for you to
continue to show up into your life so
that if you’re having conflicts with
anybody that’s out there you don’t have
to put your attention on any thought
that is out of harmony with the
relationship that you would like to have
it doesn’t have to be you can have a
love story replace a hate story by just
changing your thoughts in any moment of
your life as you’ll see some of you will
see it this afternoon as Katie works
with some of you and does the work and
teaches you to ask yourself these
questions about how can you be sure how
can you be sure that that thought is
true why not have a love relationship
with your ex-husband or your ex-wife why
not have a love relationship with your
in-laws why not why not have it with
everyone on the planet why not indeed
why not every moment of your life this
choice is yours
you can either be a host to God or a
hostage
to your ego it’s your call
god bless you and thank you for your
attention
namaste thank you
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