TRANSFORM YOUR SUFFERING INTO STRENGTH! – Best Motivational Speech Video
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my question to you today my friends are
and really I want you to think about
this one a little bit I want you to take
your time really meditate on this why
are you doing the thing that you’re
doing
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all of us want to feel inspired we all
want to feel like we’re part of
something bigger than ourselves we all
want to have some sort of physical and
psychological safety whether it’s at
home or work and at the end of the day
everything when being on the planet
what’s the feeling that I can provide
for myself and my family there’s
nobility and work think dreams are fine
like it’s it’s fun the fantasize but I
think it’s it’s also important to just
be honest about what dreams are is that
they’re fantasies they’re fun and so I
prefer to kind of take more present
approach of like okay let’s pay
attention to like how does this feel
right now how does the work make you
feel now because I think if you pay
attention to that that’s actually what
makes great things happen in your life
and I realize frustration is suffering I
get frustrated you know I get concerned
you know worried sometimes I think oh
okay that’s suffering where’s it coming
to what am i stressed about what are you
concerned about and I immediately knew
as I realize the stressful thoughts
since I seen Christians yeah I kind of
traded one thing but I really do now is
I dig in and I noticed that the only
time you have stress or suffer is when
you believe a stressful part my thing is
like as long as I try my best as long as
I attempt it then you know that’s not
failing because there’s a lot of people
in life whether it’s in their personal
life or in their business life and they
sit on the sidelines they’re like man I
don’t have the resources I can’t build a
business or I’m not old enough I don’t
have the knowledge or I’m too old that I
can’t build a business and I’d always
tell people I much rather be in the
trenches I much rather be on the field
than sitting on the sidelines wasting
time and thinking man I can’t do that
what are you really thinking after what
do you really want what what a hole in
you
what missing part of you what’s sore
spot in you is healed by the pursuit of
your goals you you need the problems
because that’s what generates the
beating and if you don’t have the
meaning then you know everything just
feels pointless you’re like well I do
anything so you need that that meaning
you know it comes back to that what I
was saying about the stories that we
wrap around our positive to negative
experiences you know like that meaning
is what creates those there’s powerful
stories that that pushes us forward and
you know makes our makes us feel like
our life as well then I realized all I
had to do is have my phone to be
stressed that that’s true might happen
this is so cheap cuz what are the
chances of everybody doing exactly what
you think they should do the right way
every day so the antidote to suffering
haneda of lossless never yes
appreciation I always tell people trade
your expectation for appreciation for
life changes the best leaders are
actually the best cause the best leaders
never think that they’re the final that
the buck stops with them they always
believe that they’re in service to
something bigger than themselves
the majority of not only entrepreneurs
but human beings like we start off we
can’t like the majority of people are
like oh you can’t do this because this
this is this and this and it’s like
humans are very disempowering creatures
like if we don’t catch your thoughts if
we don’t catch your patterns if you
don’t catch the things that come out of
our mouths but they’re negative like we
need to switch that
what really matters is the relationships
of the people in your life if you don’t
have people close to you
to share them with or the support or
help support you
pretty much anything will eventually
feel empty don’t confuse humility with
meekness humility is being open to the
ideas about happiness will never last as
long as what I did was realize I’m not
gonna suffer life’s too short the way I
do it is and catch myself and I start to
get that sense of stress and let it go I
see the I to go bomb
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me self-confidence is measured and there
should be a degree of a doubt when we
talk about building when self confidence
I think the mistake that we make is that
we look inside I think the reality is we
try to build our self-confidence we
should be looking to our friends we
should be nursing our relationships when
I’m looking to build my self-confidence
the question is who around me do I need
to take care of
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success is not you saying how much money
you have in the bank account it’s about
who you are and how you show up in the
world and how you show up for yourself
forget about everybody else how usual
for yourself
I honor the opinion I will listen to
good feedback but I don’t care if you
think I’m a good person I’m back for
some successful and failure it’s not
it’s not for you to decide for me to
decide I’ll complain about being burnt
out or they’ll complain about being
tired and I don’t think necessarily in
every case that were burnt out or tired
because we’re doing too much but maybe
we’re doing too little of the things
that really matter that make us feel
alive the only way that change is going
to take place is if you see the evidence
of the collapse right in front of you I
think the challenge is is that people
have to wake up and the question is how
uncomfortable do you have to become
before you make up your mind to change
something in life I don’t lose only win
or learn like if people can realize like
so many people think like they’ve lost
but like if you just pull one piece of
one one piece of information that’s good
whether it is a different perspective
extracting knowledge a different way to
go about life a different way to not
fall on your face like that’s winning
appreciation love and joy destroy
something you can’t be grateful and
angry simultaneously it’s possible you
can’t be worried and fearful and
grateful simultaneously so I told people
gratitude is one of the emotions to
cultivate that will destroy the sucker
these are going well you’re happy when
things aren’t going well you’re sad but
when you learn how to self-regulate and
create more coherence in your brain and
harness then you’re no longer dependent
on your outer world controlling your
mood the biggest and baddest people are
handicapped and crippled by the limiting
beliefs the things that they tell
themselves and that’s where I say the
biggest disability is a bad mindset it’s
not this body here is how I deal with
fear fear is a is a figment of our
imagination right fear is created
because it expected
firstly once you have an expectation of
yourself and you say hey I don’t need to
have this expectation I’m just living
life as a play it’s a game it’s music
it’s it’s fun joy so I’m doing it for
the fun and the joy so I am enjoying
along the ride like I’m not gonna kill
myself if I don’t get there one day like
it’s not it doesn’t define it’s it’s
there only so I have something to chase
my goal is not to make everything
absolutely equal than other time in my
relationship to know that time I spend
at the gym is another time that I’m
working on my career but maybe the goal
is like like an orchestra you know each
instrument they don’t necessary
full-time but they’ve come together in a
way that creates art you know a symphony
choice is a gift it’s always there you
can choose what you focus on what you
focus on is what you’re gonna experience
you can focus on things that make you
suffer you can focus some things that
they could grateful and of the to
gratitude is the better approach it’s
not some mamby-pamby positive thinking
approach it’s intelligent because when
you’re in a good state you can solve the
problem and like so many people are
trying to seek validation from other
people they’re trying to be working on
relationships with girls or trying to
you know seek validation from other
things and Instagram and materialistic
things and when the biggest relationship
that they should be working on is the
one with their themselves in fact you
begin to realize how you think and feel
begins to produce effects in your outer
life now you start believing more you’re
the creator of your life and less of a
victim of your life now that isn’t
something that you take one bite up and
swallow and it’s all over it’s a process
of repattern me it’s a process of
rewiring it’s a process of
reconditioning it’s a process of
self-reflection and awareness and
changing those beliefs
we live in today outside your belief
systems is your ability to add value
fast forward all the way to when we’re
taking our last breaths and at that time
nobody’s opinions or our fears no that’s
gonna matter what’s gonna matter is how
he lived how he loved how he left how he
learned
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