TRAIN THE BRAIN – Best Motivational Speech Video (GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER)
you ask the person why are you so
unhappy why are you so frustrated why
are you so exempt the moment you ask
that their brain is going to associate
that emotion to a past event that’s
because they have nothing to look
forward to in their future so if you’re
not being defined by a vision in the
future it just means to me that you’re
more in love with your past than you are
with the future so how do you teach
people to believe in a future that they
can’t see or experience what their
senses yet but they’ve thought about
enough times in their mind that their
brain has literally changed to look like
the event that’s already occurred
yeah we do this naturally as young
children in our front driveway and we’re
bouncing the ball or we’re playing on a
sport in the park and you know it’s like
okay well and kids do this they say okay
well who are you gonna be no I’m gonna
I’m gonna be Wayne Gretzky or I’m gonna
be Michael Jordan or like whatever the
sport is or I’ll be lino Messi and you
be Cristiano Ronaldo and it’s because we
go to that place and ahead of what could
I do
if if I wasn’t whatever you perceive
yourself as right now because we all
have this sometimes destructive
narrative on what we think that we can
and cannot do what I’m saying purpose I
think it’s about defining your goals
defining what the life you’re trying to
build is and and having a real model for
what you’re doing if you’re doing this
thing because it means something to you
and you know exactly what success looks
like for you you want to make sure that
you’re not comparing yourself to other
people you want to compare yourself
against the progress you’ve made I can’t
find love because my mom preferred my
brother I can’t be a success because I
never went to university I can’t speak
in public because I blush without
understanding when you describe why you
can’t you keep it going if you keep
talking about the symptom your mind
keeps it alive because whatever you
focus on you get more of all the diction
whether it’s drugs alcohol sugar sets
shopping come down to the same thing say
it is down to childhood trauma trauma
as being either a bad thing has happened
to you or not enough good things have
happened and so we all start now living
into the future and living into the
future and I can’t wait till I’m fifteen
seventeen then you look at what adults
do they’re like oh in order as I grow
older apparently I get more serious and
they get more pragmatic and I get more
practical and so all those things that I
was doing as a kid or childish I got it
let’s let’s leave those things off and
then we move away from those things
those traits those qualities those
abilities that actually helped us
develop really rapidly find ourselves
more quickly because we perceive it as
being childish and yet they were the
very things that helped you do difficult
things and challenging things like learn
to how to ride a bike learn to associate
with other people a parent an adult
someone else in society how do you teach
a person to select a new possibility in
their future and begin to emotionally
embrace that future before it’s made
manifest to such a degree that their
body as their unconscious mind is
believing it’s living in that future
reality in the present moment and
they’re signaling new genes and new ways
ahead of the environment now to their
body begins to change to look like the
event has already occurred many people
they need you to go back and I’m picked
their story
do what you do what happened to you in
understanding why for most blacks there
oh my god I never knew that’s why I do
that anyway I didn’t know you
if you don’t feel whole in ourselves
right if we feel that there’s a bit
missing we will you know we were trying
to fill that with other things you know
why do it sugar
whether it’s booze while they were
shopping we will use other things to
give us that buzz and as we feel more
complete and this is what how I feel I’m
going on this journey as I start to
understand myself and let go of these
negative emotions
I just feel those compensated behaviors
I’m no longer adopted not because i’m
actively trying not to do them but
because it’s no longer serving me you
walk up that Canyon or you’re in the
wilderness or you’re standing next to
the ocean and you’re just experiencing
the present moment you’re not thinking
about how amazing you are and you’re not
thinking about how worthless you are
either I think asking yourself questions
like I’m asking yourself tough questions
okay Who am I what kind of person do I
want to be you know is this the right
thing to do it pausing for a second
instead of just reacting emotionally all
the time is a way to kind of get out of
that self-absorbed cycle it’s that you
have equipped yourself with mental tools
skills that are gonna help you walk that
with a heck of a lot more courage grit
perseverance and a playful mind because
the playful mind is that golden key that
finally unlocks the door into zone and
flow state I’ve just seen it thousands
of times because people think the zone
and the flow state that amazing place
where you’re just so engrossed in the
moment is this mythical point that you
maybe get to one or two times in a
season or in a year in a week if you’re
a writer
or executive or something like that now
it’s a biological process and it’s a
mental process that when you start
toppling the dominoes the likelihood of
it coming to you just increases
exponentially this intelligence that
lives within you and I that’s governing
everything material in this world it’s a
self-organizing intelligence you have
access to it so you better get present
with it as well as you can get present
with anything else and just because you
can’t see it doesn’t mean it doesn’t
exist that that mean that realm you
can’t experience with your senses you
can only experience with your awareness
if I make a might get rejected if I find
love they might leave if I make all that
money people won’t like meaningless
you’re going to smash out of the
ballpark the fear of rejection always a
way that something’s gonna hate your
book I don’t like y’all right that’s
okay
they can’t reject me they might reject
my book most people happen to love them
but to get anywhere in life you have to
get over the fear of rejection even
these small steps that people take their
snot to show themselves a bit of
self-respect they’re starting to help
themselves feel complete oh I can do
this I didn’t think that I was good
enough to strength train I didn’t think
I was the kind of person who could work
out well hold on a minute now you’d be
doing it every day for six months I’ve
got more energy you can see the tone of
my body improve this feels great
what else can I achieve small things
when don’t consistently lead to bigger
and bigger things people have to take
their attention off their bodies and go
from uh somebody to a no body take their
attention off the people in life and go
from that they identify with and go from
uh someone to no one take their
attention off the things in their life
their cell phone a computer the part and
go from something to nothing take their
attention off where they sleep where
they work where they’re sitting and go
from somewhere in nowhere take their
attention off the predictable future in
the familiar
time and go from some time to no time
trying to actually be grateful for what
you have things that you would have
killed like a year earlier to have as
soon as you have them all of a sudden
you think about how they could be better
and gratitude is incredibly important
not just because it’s what you other
people but it makes you appreciate what
you have versus focusing on what you
could have or don’t have which are
egotistical things that also recipes for
misery you know because the brain when
you’re experiencing something that’s new
will go to a place of it’ll look for
pattern if I can’t find it it’ll go to a
default mode of how are you of however
you normally respond in a situation so
if you’re a shy nervous person you’re
gonna show up now shy and nervous
someone that you’ve always wanted to
connect with but you don’t go up and
introduce yourself or you’re in the
boardroom and there’s an opportunity for
you to say something with a great idea
but then you don’t because you’re
concerned about what everyone else is
gonna think of you so you have the
capability but it didn’t get out
pundants we need has changed boomers
means I have more than I meant wave like
way more than I mean I know so I have
way more than I need and I know how to
create it so don’t take it
so now you’re no longer holding on in
scarcity some people lack the courage to
live the life they want and live only as
they have begun right so that’s the that
people lack the courage to change to
make to do abrupt changes especially as
they get later on in life and so I think
just because you good at something or
just because you’ve done it for a long
time is not necessarily a reason to
continue that thing but you see the mind
listens to everything you say the mind
is always switched on and it records
everything and it never forgets so when
you feel enough your life is so
different when you feel not enough
wealthy people that have created a lot
of wealth in this work they want to give
back they want to make a difference and
I think that that’s how we’re a Nate Lee
Weyer I think we’re all innately wired
to care for one to make a difference in
the living organism our living organism
our community we heal one another that’s
what we do we inform one another we
encourage one another we support one
another we shine for one another
not to outshine another person to shine
the show that they can shine on us and
that to me is super healthy
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