Tony Robbins – Secret To Getting Out Of A Fear Mode
as a human being i gotta lead not follow i gotta educate myself because fear a decision made from fear is almost always the wrong decision so where does that start it starts by seeing it as it is not taking it casual but also not seeing it worse than it is step two see it better than it is without a vision people perish if you don’t create a compelling future even though it’s difficult now you got to remember this is the season winter comes and winter goes some winters are hard some are soft some are long some are short but what always follows winter thank god is the springtime what always follows the night is the day you just gotta work on yourself i mean for things right now it’s like we got to do our part the things that changed my original teacher was a guy named jim rohn you also say used to say to me for things to change you got to change for things to get better you got to get better and i think if if we can not just get out of the fear a little bit that doesn’t mean don’t do what the government tells you i don’t want to be misinterpreting me they’re telling you to social distance social distance whatever they tell you to do it comply but don’t let fear control you that’s my message and start to create a vision for where you want to go and then the third step is make it the way you want to see it in order to do that you’ve got to put yourself in a place where you’re doing something to build up inside we have to make our own decision but the larger question is you got to look and see examples because what happens in our brain is when we’re fearful there’s no way and the answer is you and i both started with nothing we started with our ability to understand that we are not just the manager of our circumstances that with god’s power and health we’re the creator of our lives right we know how to create again and you have to you have to stop thinking about putting humpty dumpty back together again the same way because it’s not going to happen so i could give you a dozen examples people at this stage you have to draw a line in the sand that says i want to find the way to serve if you’re trying to figure to survive and i understand you’ve got to survive but you’ll never survive by focusing on survival and our goal as humans what makes us humane what makes us the spiritual side of humanity what makes us i think what we are is our willingness and our desire to serve we’ll do more for others we love than we’ll even do for ourselves and the research now shows that if you will give even to strangers that you don’t know never see again the simple act of giving because they can now do they can see by your saliva they can check what hormones are stimulated in you you can sit there and buy ten people a cup of coffee or five people a cup of coffee you don’t even know while you’re standing in line and the response and the biochemical uplift from that is stronger than if you would have gone and spent thousands of dollars right were you doing it on yourself to get something i was in india and i saw these children dying from waterborne disease is so easy to solve so now we provide a quarter million people a year my wife and i according to people a day rather with fresh water our goal is to get to a million they go oh easy for you but this is the mistake people make i did this when i had nothing that’s why i’m here i can remember one of the worst days of my life i was working my tail off i was studying personal development i was working with this guy jim rohn sleeping in my car trying to figure out how to help people but i was so frustrated i’m studying all this i’m working so hard i got my little business here why is it not growing why isn’t it going and i was feeling so sorry for myself and i was driving back from orange county california on the 57th freeway we live in this place called pomona california and late at night nobody on the freeway and angry frustrated god tell me why and then i’ll never forget the moment i still love the journal i pulled over on the side of the road and i wrote on one page the secret to living is giving i just started crying because i realized when i started it was all about my giving but then i got into success or failure and trying to pay my bills and all that stuff and i forgot my real purpose there’s something inside you that is uniquely created by god that is superior you may not have found yet but it’s there but not to make yourself feel superior because that’s fake and that’s phony and it’ll separate you know that everybody has something that they’re superior to you got something that’s there so let’s let’s see how we can serve each other’s brothers and sisters and that’s when people feel most alive anyway what you get isn’t going to make you happy who you become that’s going to make you really happy or really sad and so you got to declare how you’re going to live and my hope is that coming out of this coded as the facts on weave we get out of the fear mode we’re still going to have lots to fear meaning like things that make us uncomfortable but that won’t get you through it’s your faith and your certainty and your action and your ability to innovate that’s going to get you through and so you got to feed your mind and my original teacher jim rohn used to say stan everyday stand guard at the door of your mind he’d say look if if uh he said tony what if your worst enemy put sugar in your coffee what’s going to happen to yours nothing i got sweet coffee because what if you’re you know your family member your friend somebody who loves you accidentally drops one drop of strychnine in your coffee i go i’d be dead he goes that’s right so watch your coffee he said because you don’t know where it’s coming from every hey you got to stand guard at the door of your mind and make sure you only put in things that defeat it so that’s why i started some simple rituals like every single day i start with my prayers and then i get up and i do my workout because getting your body going fear is physical so is courage courage is you’re afraid you do it anyway you push those muscles you run you jump in freezing water you swim you push some weights you do something where you push yourself and that strength comes back and the body strength goes to the mind the heart the soul and the spirit so just some simple disciplines during this time for your viewers and listeners be really important you
