Tony Robbins Motivational Speaker: Winner vs Loser
I took up golf recently I never play this game old man’s game never do it but my kids place I want to play with him so I go out and I do really well I go out in this one day I out power by my instructor I’m feeling really proud the next day I’m not feeling so proud I keep putting the ball in the water again I am so frustrated and put down another one put down another one I don’t care I don’t care my score is let’s do it and finally I was getting frustrating that he’s gone things like a nerd a bitch this is golf and I’m going ball I said this is you’re a terrible instructor I said because I should at least be consistent at whatever shitty level I can achieve I said I know I’m not Tiger Woods but I should be able to be consistent and you’re just telling me it’s difficult being tell me it’s difficult is not helping tell me what to do he saw actually you’re only a little bit off I said could have fooled me he said no you’re about a millimeter or two off I said you’re joking so no watch this he said I didn’t teach you this yet he said when you approach the ball like this he said if you change the angle that you’re attacking there’s just one or two millimeters in the very beginning do you see how that changes the arc this one instead of being on the green or one millimeter now you’re in the water I’m kneeling over here you’re in the sand he said it also you’re hitting the ground by one millimeter sometimes three you’re not stroking it just one millimeter I thought what a great belief system that when all hell is breaking loose and nothing’s working that you’re only one millimetre off because most people think it’s impossible so they give up isn’t that true in a real life that’s true so two days later I’m going to see one of my clients I do a lot of coaching and I’m a man as the top plastic surgeon in the world he’s going through some tough times and aspects of his life but this is a guy that gets paid by sultan of brunei a million dollars to fly over into three people’s faces he is the number one plastic surgeon on the world he can make anyone who’s ugly look spectacular beautiful he showed me pictures a woman is 84 years old he made her look 40 and gorgeous no exaggeration you know what I’m waiting for him in his office and he’s still in surgery so he’s got a new book he’s creating to teach other surgeons around the world and I’m going to and it’s got pictures of you know the top hundred supposedly most beautiful women in the world’s faces and then men I wasn’t paying attention to that one I just kept turning the pages but I noticed something he’s got all these measurements he has mathematically calculated what it takes to make someone look gorgeous man or woman and it’s a few millimeters interesting for example on a woman the distance between the top part of your lip and your know is this little distance the measurement of that if you’re a beautiful gorgeous is the same size as your eye if it’s one millimeter more you have an average face if it’s 2 meter means more you are but ugly the different scene but ugly and gorgeous is two millimeters he’s got about a dozen of these little one or two millimeter changes he makes and it’s it’s a different person it is unbelievable so a very powerful belief to leave today with would be nothing’s working on one millimeter way what little finger change and when I do it changes everything because I’m heading this direction I make this little shift you take that out an hour from now a day from now a week from now a month or now you have a totally different destination from that direction but the one millimeter change I’ll show you one of them right now check this out stay in the state of certainty some of you lost it intensify it whatever it takes intents make your move come on make your move say yes say yes say yes say yes now feel that in your body don’t let go of it now watch here’s different stream being certain and being uncertain did you see that certain uncertain see if you can find that little spot between the two well you drop just a little bit of your chest and you feel a drop and come back up nobody can feel that difference between where you really feel now intensify it then when you dropped it is it a tiny difference yes or no yes or no now could you condition yourself to feel great in this state yes or no so what I want you to do is give yourself that opportunity so the way we’re gonna do is very simple we’re gonna go on a peach state and then we going to train ourselves cuz guess what if you’re in this state a certain state of certain state of certainty and all hell’s breaking loose in your life people get bigger jiggle move I’ll handle it people go he’s so lucky he’s so confident no here’s what I’ve created from my life and anyone who knows succeeded I’m a 17 year old kid from Azusa California with no real education other than self with no background with parents that did their best all of them with no money but I did one thing I love people and I had an enormous demand I made upon myself and I sculpted my mind and my emotions to get me to do whatever it would take to achieve and to contribute but to do that I did it by using my body and changing my focus I did it by putting myself in a Peet physiology and using what I call incantations can you train yourself to believe something yes or no absolutely how many of you ever made the fatal mistake of going to Disneyland or Disney World and while you’re there made the fatal mistake of going to a ride called it’s a small world after all what happens for about a week after you’re out of that damn place you’re still singing this thing in your head in 24 languages right let me tell you something how many of you have things when you want to go Chiva man this part of your voice goes on it’s not gonna happen or forget it I’m gonna go to voices sometimes interrupts that good pattern say I what you want to do is train a new one so starting when I was 17 I started doing incantations not affirmations affirmation you go home happy I’m happy I’m Anthony I’m happy I’m happy what’s the problem you haven’t changed your what your what physiology if you don’t change your physiology you won’t get anything so in incantations you only you speak it but you embody what you’re saying with all the intensity you can and you do it with enough repetitions that it sticks in your head like it’s a small world now the conversation your head is always the same and it gives you what you want so use your body and your voice so 17 years ago I started doing things I was working for Jim Rohn this speaker when I was 17 years old I had long hair minestrone soup acne on my face and I was trying to call on Bear Stearns type of people and convince them why they should go to this man seminar be more successful I was driving a 1968 Volkswagen but I had earned it $40 a week as a janitor the only way I did it was parked far from the building and then go in and I love people I believe but I put myself in state and I was able to influence people that were far more successful I was at the time I will do something that I still do backs have done for 23 years because I don’t hope I’m gonna be in a good state I demand it so I do an incantation using my whole body I now command my subconscious mind to direct me in helping as many people as possible live today to better their lives they give me the strength the emotion the persuasion the humor the brevity whatever it takes to show these people and get these people to change their lives now and I would do that literally driving in my Volkswagen to a meeting in LA on the freeway for 40 minutes people look I’m screaming about my lungs they’re going I know he’s a serial killer I know he is but by the time I entered that room when two people meet if there’s rapport the person who’s most certain will always influence the other person and I was probably certain and they were trying to get revved up to certainty do you agree with this yes or no I do another one because I was poor I changed my mindset I kept doing things but I never got beyond it I’d say gods wealth is circulating in my life as well flows to me an avalanche is of abundance all my needs desires and goals are met instantaneously by infinite intelligence I’m one with God and God is everything and I would imagine the abundance of my life and I would feel so grateful and a year later I went from making thirty eight thousand dollars a year to make a million dollars a year and one year that successful people do what failures won’t you follow me on this you