THE UNDERDOG MENTALITY | POWERFUL Motivational Video Speech Compilation
I’ll start with this two hands putting
it’ll work the thing that has worked for
me is to remember the hard times and I
just remind myself all right I was
evicted when I was 14 we were kicked off
the island we couldn’t live in Hawaii
had no place to live it’s also a lot
easier to let go of something when
you’re deciding to let go of it because
you’ve decided yourself that it’s you’re
done with that it’s a weak part of you
it needs to disappear people can live
with themselves that’s the first day a
lot of people could live with themselves
look in the mirror and say I’m okay with
being afraid no a lot of us are going
through a hard time in life some people
being bullied some people are distressed
out some people are insecure
some people are fat and overweight I
leave home like you guys left home I’m
ready to tackle the world to get after
it
achieve my dreams and goals crushed by
22 23 years old I’m now gonna move back
in with my mom and dad a lot of what
people regard as their own personalities
and are proud of about their own
personalities aren’t their own
personalities at all they’re useless
idiosyncrasies that differentiate them
trivially from other people you have to
first be uncomfortable with how you feel
about yourself with that voice that
allows like to run away from we all have
it and if I could be who I needed to be
what would that look like self deception
and arrogance to be proud of your
insufficiency that’s a very
and that means to cling to the parts of
you that are dead so he first have to
face the real you who knows I’m weak who
knows I’m afraid
who says whatever you think about me
take it whatever I’m here at some point
you got to be tired of not being number
one you have to accept which you’re not
you have to and people don’t want to do
that that’s the only way you can fix it
you have to accept it first before you
can go on the journey as you elevate
your aim you create a judge at the same
time the new ideal which is an ideal you
becomes a judge because it’s above you
right and then you’re you’re terrified
of it maybe who they want to be they act
like they are but they’re not because
they have it fixed all this stuff yet
you gotta fix this first before we can
start our journey in life get rid of
everything about yourself that isn’t
perfect there’s nothing you can’t
accomplish the other in the suffering is
a world that very few have ever seen the
judge that you’re creating by
formulating the idea tells you what’s
useless about yourself and then you can
dispense with it people are you writing
you off it should drive you should works
for me it should drive you you’re
setting the example every single day of
your life you may be tired but you ain’t
never come back home man not judged
embrace the darkness you do have to
embrace the rage every single person
that you look up to your favorite person
in the entire world is a failure has
been at one point or another a failure
this satisfaction is it’s an innate part
of our psychology there’s no amount of
money or success or love that you’re
ever gonna achieve or you’re like cool I
I’m done I got it moment you realize the
next step isn’t going to kill you and
that next step is the first step to
evolving changing growing and learning
or becoming literally the best version
of yourself that’s the most beautiful
thing you’ve got to have a reason why
and most people who succeed ultimately
have a strong reason why I look at rage
and darkness as a supercharger I have a
reason why and the supercharger on top
that engine is my rage with darkness so
many people in life through no fault of
their own have a bar set for themselves
glass ceiling except themselves that
they don’t even know they’re I think
more people ought to put themselves in
positions where they deal with adversity
and challenges so that they can develop
some sense of anger and darkness and
rage the more we struggle with meaning
or purpose in our lives the more hope we
look for kind of compensate for that
you almost have to take the huge goal
and shelf it don’t forget about it but
shelf it and now focus on everything
that’s small to get there I think we
focus so much on trying to be perfect
but really we just need to be successful
even if you failed that failure was an
event it’s not who you are it’s not
personal
we’re surrounded today by people being
satisfied with media as soon as I
realize that I I could believe in myself
that it opened up a lot of the doors
it’s not bulletproof you know but this
this armor that we have around us and
that armor has chinks in it we all have
our own insecurities their own fears and
how our own limited believes their own
limited mindset we are imperfect humans
with these in these doubts amidst these
cracks and in what you see and you do
that by one chapter in a book one video
one one minute or five minutes of
visualization is seeing yourself winning
put yourself in a position where you’re
going to thrive not where it’s gonna be
comfortable with society parents who
ever have set the standard for you to
not play it safe it risks what if you
lose what if you lose okay as long as
you don’t die you can come right back
except what do you want
what’s your passion what are you trying
to accomplish you can’t follow that a
plan and figure out the steps unless you
know where you’re trying to go how can
you go somewhere if you don’t know where
your time together
and so the fighter jet mentality is that
someone who is just determined
relentlessly obsessed in the Kuban of
outcomes in the face of all adversity so
failure is an event not a person every
single person that we’ve looked up to
has gone from failure to the next
failure to finally triumph have to move
to start feeling something and if you
move and start feeling something you’re
on your way to the best version of
yourself
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we’re so afraid of being vulnerable
we’re terrified of being honest we’re so
used to being judged and being held to a
standard that society sets for us that
we don’t give ourselves permission to
even ask these questions let alone
answer them decide what you need to do
and act
the foundation of all strength is paint
embrace pain pain is something to
embrace if there’s no resistance to you
you’re not gonna get anywhere in life
the purpose of the goal is not getting
it anyway the purpose of all who you
become will you becomes gonna make you
happier it’s gonna make you sad
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because some people think when you lose
your dream or you lose something that
it’s over but you’re they lose who you
are you lost that thing that placement
life might not be adding up to what you
wanted to add up to but at least you
have another every single day is a new
beginning every day is a new beginning
and certain days aren’t gonna look like
you want to look but at least you have
another chance like 150,000 people die
everyday it’s 55 million people a year
if you’re looking for a blessing realize
that you’re blessed you have another
opportunity a life
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the only way you’re gonna get strength
in your life is if you go through that
hard moment that tough moment realize
this just because it’s a chapter it
doesn’t mean it’s your whole story
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most people think the things that are
temporary are the permanent things
the temporary passing I’m going through
a breakup you don’t understand that in a
month you’re gonna be okay when you’re
in a blow when you’re feeling bad you
think that thing you’re feeling is how
you’re gonna feel forever which is what
makes it feel worse all of your emotions
are temporary they’re passing things so
most of our pain comes from believing I
believe that we should keep holding on
to these things that are really heavy in
our lives we can constantly looking at
life what is it what is it where are we
I don’t look how interesting look at
different cultures different beliefs you
know how do they come to that how do I
feel about that how do you know what do
I think it’s a it is a daily adventure
you have your voice it’s there just do
it do it do it do it create you know
don’t let anyone stop you
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when you can realize that your worst
days were truly investments
when you can realize that every human
being goes through pain and injustice
some more than others but everyone was
looking everyone’s had someone being
completely unjustified everyone has had
someone hurt them were they loved and
cared for deeply or they trusted or they
look to for support or love it’s part of
how we grow spiritually there’s no
possibility to build muscle without
something you have to lift again if you
don’t lift it it will crush you and if
you lift it it will be painful it’s not
easy to lift those things
but the day in which you finally find
inside yourself the story and state that
finally makes you no longer be willing
to be pressed down by your past that’s
they your life not only changes but you
also don’t have the ability to give the
gift to others and the most beautiful
day that was the day when you go but
wasn’t for all that that I hated most I
wouldn’t have what I loved most
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realizing that there was a meaning in
all of them that it serve something
greater greater than just little mean
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we live in a constant state of fear of
missing out we’re always thinking about
what we have pending the plans the
future our vision there’s almost like
this a Dede quality life now and
especially now with social media and
with all the things coming at us so fast
and if you’re committed to creating big
results in your life you have plans you
have goals but a lot of that steals time
and steals moments from us and the magic
is in the moment I’m here I’m all-in
I’m engaged with you because so many
people are not present they miss out on
things they miss out on life and I think
that one of the biggest problems that we
have is that we think that where we are
isn’t it this is not it and so we think
that happiness or joy or fulfillment is
in the future or it was in the past
because and we lost it one of the things
that we do is we miss out on the moment
and we don’t realize that happiness is
right now because the only moment that
we really have is this one there is no
other moment the next moment is a
promise the next moment is an idea the
last moment is over like we live life
like we have forever we live life like
it’s kinetic there’s a guarantee of
tomorrow
and I don’t know there’s another moment
and so when I live life from this is the
only moment I have I’m living life from
urgency and so I’m living life from I
may not see you again so let me be
present or I may not we may not pass
this way again and so when I live from
the moment what I’m doing is I’m
celebrating it and acknowledging it and
I’m able to be present in it and so what
stops me from from that is the guilt of
the past and the anxiety of the past and
the resistance of of what you know I’ve
been through afraid of going through it
again
embrace and accept where you are that
what’s happening right now is actually
happening for you that what’s happening
right now is your benefit because as
long as I’m thinking that that this
relationship isn’t ant this moment isn’t
it this house isn’t it this career isn’t
it what I’m doing is I’m putting all of
my happiness on a result II being
grateful for the moment that I have
whether it’s it could be a bad moment it
could be you know an amazing moment
because my happiness is up to me and so
my enjoying of this moment is up to me
and so when I’m able to embrace the
moment and live in it than a present so
many people go through people’s lives
and they were never present they were
never there they were never connected
they miss out they don’t remember even
conversations or you see it at funerals
people like what was the last thing I
said to them or was that what could I
remember of them in a whole lifetime
can be summed up in two conversations
where there were so many moments that
you were with somebody that you want
present and so by not being present with
the responsibilities of what I’m
creating then what I do is I’m always
thinking that this is not it and it
should be different and then we stay
stuck and then we’re stuck in a
situation we don’t want to be in and
then we’re miserable about it and we
complain about it but we don’t do
anything about it you’re deciding not to
decide and so you’re making a choice to
be in limbo which is why so many people
are unfulfilled because they’re not
they’re not doing what they want to do
if you’re in a career that you’re not
all in get out if you’re not if you’re
in a relationship you’re not all in get
out be an ownership of whatever moment
you’re in most people are spectators
they’re like watching they’re observing
they show up to a place and they observe
they go to the party and they oh I don’t
like the food I like the you know this
is the vibes weird and then they they’re
in this observer mode or they show up
into situations they’re lie is their
life but they’re a spectator what is
your intention when you’re sitting down
with your significant other
what is your intention when you go into
the board meeting what is in your
tension when you talking to your
employees what is your intention when
you talk to your mom so what’s the
experience that you want to create when
you’re with that person accountability
is love holding people accountable is
saying I love you when I hold you
accountable I’m saying you’re capable of
a bigger game and so holding people
accountable to being president creates
an environment of people being present
and also there’s the whole thing of
wanting more more more more more more
money more followers more success more
of whatever something hot or something
brighter and we don’t realizing the key
to joy and happiness with happening
right now this moment this is the moment
all of those things will never bring
fulfillment and don’t bring people back
and don’t bring memories back you know
some people are so on on it it’s like we
live on autopilot in this moment is the
most important moment you have because
you may not have another one you may not
wake up tomorrow the plane may not land
so I think that if we live we live more
consciously present and be present with
the people that we love express how we
feel today make every moment count this
will elevate people’s lives
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in a whistle and Churchill said said
many years ago history will be kind to
me for I intend to write it a heartbreak
a breakup parents getting a divorce of
five getting bullied all of these things
then make you because of those
experiences now when that happens you
are gonna do one of three things you
know the whole flight freeze or fight
now you know what freeze happens nothing
happens
flight nothing’s ever but fight that
part is born during those moments what
if I get asked a question that I don’t
have the answer to one of the scariest
things of our life is a question doctor
the scary question can shake a soul up
as no one’s asked that question
if you don’t ask the questions on what
you want to do next the world is gonna
put you in the box on what you have to
do next and you are rising up to their
expectations because you’re not asking
the questions yourself what life do you
wanted them and why do you want to live
this stuff why is it important you was
it what you’re putting through all these
hours why would you want to do that
that’s transition when you go through it
and then the pressure pardon when you
said here so I’m gonna be you will you
declare your intentions to the world
this is what I’m gonna be doing a lot of
times we keep things too secret
I think the clearing intention serves a
purpose I think when you go out there
and you say this is what I’m gonna be
doing this is where I’m gonna be at you
officially have the world holding you
accountable that pressure could be good
pressure to put into your life the
identity goes from being a regular
person to the next day no one recognizes
them haters highlight your weaknesses
and if you’re smart you’re like he makes
a good point
hey one day I’m gonna make so much fun
I’m gonna shut everybody up that doesn’t
work first of all that’s not going to
take place so you have a choice either
you can say I don’t want to deal with
the voice you have a small life but if
you can’t slit a small life and you have
to live a big life you have to
understand that it’s going to be pushed
and you have to figure out a way to
silence everybody anticipation is gained
the more you tell the world how to
manage expectations dealing with you and
what to anticipate it
you actually minimize a lot of the most
we don’t take the time to say what are
the values and principles that I’m
willing to build my life on and what
agree to are today what what are what
are you willing to really stand up for
you know what is your core belief system
you gotta go really deep really deep
with purpose and really deep with if you
don’t move what could take place for
people to sit down and realize if you
really want to move yourself ask the
questions go deeper on what life could
happen both get in back up it to both of
them and hopefully that creates urgency
for you to start taking the next
necessary steps the gift of imagination
and visualization is rarely used
properly
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