Real Friend vs Fake Friend :- Bishop TD Jakes |Best Inspirational video.
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see we love to unlock the door to lost
successes we love to show people what
we’re good at and as long as you leave
what I’m good at come Oni but if you
have a need where I’m not gonna that’s
what all my walls go up we never
understand that it is your uncertainty
that is the attraction do not have a
ground
the busting my colors it is not the
colors you need once it is the character
watch out for the character
there are three types of people that you
are the first group confidants you have
very few of their confidants are those
people in your life who love you
unconditionally they are in to you
whether you’re up or down right or wrong
they are into you they are in for the
long haul
if you get in trouble they get in
trouble with you they’re cozy
jailhouse they’ll come get you out the
crack house their confidence you can
open up and share anything with them
you’ll never inherit your kingdom until
you find your confidence you can’t be
David till you find your job having a
good confidant is the key that unlocks
the kingdom because you were raised
outside the gate and God’s gonna cost
you to reach over the wall you got to
have a confidant behind the wall who can
mentor you for what God is going to do
next in your life the problem with most
people is that everybody may wanna run
on with is under them and so you are
forever feeding people who can’t see you
and after years of feeding them they
begin to bring you you got to have
somebody who can feed you so you can see
somebody else on here when I’m staying
am I talking to anybody in here you need
the confidante then the confidante is
those few people that come along in your
life that are for you they are with you
they are intimately intertwined in your
life they are there to make sure that
you reach for destiny they will confront
you they will get in your face they will
get in your business because they are if
you have two or three of them you are a
person you need to find your
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the other group copies are your
constituents they are not into you they
are into what you are for they are for
what you are for they are your
constituents and as long as you are for
what they are for they will walk with
you and work with you and labor with you
but never think that they are for you
they are for what you are for and you
have to know that because if they need
somebody else that will firm that their
agenda they will leave you and hook up
with them because they were never for
you they were just for when you were
four
they are your constituents and
throughout your life if you’re not
careful particularly if you’re broken
and you will mistake your constituents
for your confidence and you will think
that they are for you when they are
really not for you they are just for
what you are for and by the time you get
to falling in love with them they will
break your heart as they hook up with
somebody else who is for what you are
for because it was
about you anyway it was another call
they are for but they are not for you
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the third group are your comrades these
people are not for you nor are they for
what you are for it is just that they
are against what you are against and the
comrades will make strange bedfellows
this will cause people to come together
who are not for you and they are not for
one two or four but they are against
what you are against as they will team
up with you to help fight a greater
enemy but don’t be confused by their
associations they will only be with you
until the victory in the complex these
people are like scaffolding they come
into your life to fulfill a purpose
and when the purpose is complete the
scaffolding is removed but don’t be
upset when they are removed because the
building always remains when the
scaffolding is removed what I’m saying
to you my brothers and sister expect the
constituents and the comrades to leave
you and desert you after Wow
don’t be upset when they don’t react to
your dream the way you expected them to
because they were never really with you
in the first place be careful then who
you tell your dream to because if you
tell your brain to your constituents
they will desert you and try to fulfill
the dream without you if
tell it to your comrades they won’t
support it come here never work for what
you were for anyway if you find a few
people in your dream you rejoice when
you walk in a room and watch their
reaction if you don’t want me to succeed
I want somebody praying for me who
really wants me to be blessed who watch
me to be overcome
so you can put up your oil and stop
speaking in time cuz you know you never
did speak to me anyway
and ain’t no meeting you coming up here
in this hospital like you go play some
cancer off of me I’d rather have
somebody who really loved
Oh anybody into your life to help you
you want to just clap your hands and
thank you for the people he said don’t
worry about the people he took you are
the praise it for the people he said
that somebody say somebody help me I
didn’t get here by myself somebody help
me to get here somebody taught me I
understand somebody got me behind the
gate somebody taught me the protocol of
the pilot somebody encouraged me when I
felt like dropping out of school
somebody help me with my back was up
against the wall
somebody mentored me when I was going
through a divorce somebody help me I was
going crazy God is so faithful that he
will never leave himself without a
witness
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