MUST READ SELF-HELP BOOKS | ROBERT GREENE, TONY ROBBINS, ROGER DAWSON
hi guys welcome back to my channel come and join me as to explore the world of literature from classics to contemporary and as we develop ourselves we’re reading self-management books and doing physical exercise hello everyone in this video we’re going to talk a lot about self-help books well obviously i am a big fan of this genre because it helps me on personal development and it also empowers me which i am so much in love with and grateful for so in this video i’m going to give you a comprehensive information about my self-help readings featuring three great authors what are the books that i read what are the books that i’m going to read and what are the books that i will re-read and most importantly how this book change or will change my life as well as yours but before we dive into the books just a little bit of a disclaimer i am not an expert i am not a life motivational coach motivational life coach i will not give you a book summary or book review but more of an opinion or personal reaction about these books i mean every reader has a voice right i am going to start with my favorite author robert green i mean i do have a lot of favorite authors but you know he is the one like king of kings if you will but i miss out by romney because of all his books i have just read one but it’s enough to entice me from my readings i gather that oh my god he’s got me first we will start with the art of seduction at first i was a little bit skeptical about reading this book because i thought it’s about sensual seduction or physical intimacy or how to drive a person crazy about you and then i thought that’s not my thing i’m a natural but kidding aside it took me a year before i finally decided to read this book i was browsing the self-help section in my local bookstore and i found it and then i said why not but you know i do have a habit of stacking books like just purchase the book and leave it on the shelf so basically it took me another three months to finally read this book but you guys the first page was all it took me to be a fan of robert greene i talk a lot but you know it’s robert green why not my favorite author one of my favorites favorite favorites best read worth your time this book will okay so first let’s start with the discussion or small chat about subconscious and the conscious and the subconscious mind because a lot of self-help books will deal about it even the spiritual books but let’s focus first with the self sorry let’s focus first with the skills and leadership self-help books or management if you will so what is the conscious mind and how does it differ with the subconscious very simple explanation is that seriously guys this is not a lecture just a little bit of an overview so please bear with me there will be no quiz afterwards okay so your conscious mind is the one which is responsible for processing ideas especially when you are still at the part where you are still learning the key word here will be awareness you are aware of what’s happening in the world around you and sometimes you will think that hey i know what’s happening around me don’t you dare but most of the time you don’t but before you close this video and say that i’m just wasting your time by telling you that you’re not aware of what’s happening around you or you are not aware of who you really are consider this simple example when you wake up in the morning you don’t decide what you do your body knows already what to do and you guys it’s different for everybody some will is news the alarm some will wake up and go to the toilet and some of you will wake up and go and eat your breakfast or some of you will wake up and think of the previous day about how bad it was or about how good it was some of you may wake up and instead think of what you’re gonna do about how good the day it is or in the list about how bad the day will go and don’t you deny it it’s the first thing you do in the morning every single day except there’s a special occasion but the point is it has become a routine you don’t have to think about it anymore even the brand of your toothpaste and which hand you use while you’re brushing your teeth by the way i use my left hand but i am a right-handed person kind of did it when i was in high school i did it intentionally yes that’s weird but you see what i’m getting at it’s the subconscious at work it’s good in a way that it’s also bad because people may use it to take advantage of you or you may use it to sabotage yourself remember how constantly you badmouth yourself i’m so ugly i’m so fat i cannot do this i wish i could be like that i’m not confident etc etc so yeah that’s a quick explanation about the subconscious and the conscious mind but without further ado let’s dive right away with the book the art of seduction so this book will introduce you to nine type of seduction and you will think that physical seduction is the best but spoilers alert robert green ranked it as the lowest type of seduction that you can use to attract somebody as you go along the book you would identify your seduction skill most of the time it’s a combination this book would urge you to use as many as you can master your seduction skill and then adapt the others this book also has a warning about the opposing type of each seduction skill like if you choose this other skill do not use this skill because they are pretty much contradicting each other and one more thing this book has also a warning about the seduction reversal which robert green explained at the end of each chapter you would also be acquainted about the seduction process and how you could get a person all in because after all seduction is just a game if you take it seriously you lose most importantly individual seduction is good but mass seduction is even better so yeah this is the art of seduction by robert green and if you’re gonna ask me am i gonna reread the book positive like over and over again the next book will be also by the same author mastery by robert greene what’s your talent let’s use it to maximize your potential without destruction i have just finished the first chapter but i stopped not because this is bad but because this book would guide you into mastering your craft how would you become a master of what you were doing and then i was like oh crap i’ve got nothing to do seriously what do i want to do in life i get a little bit skeptical because i see no practical use of it just yet not until these passing days but i’m gonna keep that for myself but you guys when i uploaded a video about booking decision where i ask you which of the three books am i gonna read i get a lot of boats with nlp the essential guide which is so so good by the way i’m heading for that one first but you know if you really want to become an expert in what you’re doing you have to find out what you really want to do in life and then just do it without any distraction without any excuses and eventually you would become so good at it you would master it you would become an expert mastery and then the last book of robert greene will be the loss of human nature oh my god this was the last book that i purchased last year and another freaking realization is that three books of robert greene is stuck like this i must be a better person you know what i’m saying i have watched robert didn’t talk about this book in google talk and i played it over and over because it was so good and i think i watched a lot of hemos especially about interviews about his books because i really enjoyed watching him talk about his books because he is just so cool he’s a genius this book will give you details about the dark side of human beings you know it’s better that while still young your parents will tell you about the reality of the harshness of the world people are not good they will sabotage you or they will take advantage of you that’s the truth so when you grow up you know how to face reality you know how to deal with failure instead of just simply giving up and blame everybody else for being so unfair so yeah these are my three books of robert green i’m planning to have these other best-selling books but i’m going to read this first good luck for me next we go on two of tony robbins books i know he has written more but i just have two of his books but oh god these books are enough to transform your life tony robbins uses a modern technology which is not expensive like the technologies out there because it is found from within from our own mind this technique is called nlp or neural linguistic programming i know the title is complicated enough but it is just so simple if you get used to it neural meaning the workings of our mind how we actually think and then linguistic how do we use language in order to understand and interpret things and then programming how can we manipulate language in order to influence our own thinking as well as other people’s thinking nlp has an ethical consideration like we are manipulating other people but hey we all do it subconsciously so why not bring it into consciousness does that ring a bell so anthony robbins talked a great deal about the subconscious and the conscious mind now let’s talk about tony robbins we go first with his book unlimited power i have read it twice and i will be glad to reread it again this book will give you power to be bold enough and ambitious enough with sense of entitlement and you feel like you can see through other people you know when they are lying or when they are telling the truth you can manipulate your mind into not storing a memory at all if that is so unpleasant it hurts you every time you think of it he also suggested an easy and quick way to overcome any type of phobia which really makes sense then going into the past and recounting your life story over and over again relieving your suffering time and time again this book would guide you to master your emotions get rid of your traumas and be yourself it would teach you that there is no such thing as failure only learning and feedback and who cares if you cannot get the result that you want right away actually most of the successful people were they just persevered this book would let you master yourself first and then after that you could then move on to the outside world and win the trust of other people but we know there’s more to it than that when people trust you anything is possible right the next book of tony robbins would be awaken the giant within if you ask me i want to get another copy of the book with different cover i know i have a kindle paperwhite i can use an ebook but hey it’s tony robbins we’re talking about my personal opinion is that if you read these two books consecutively you are unstoppable your friends may not know you at all or they would notice the big change which happened in you because it really has the power to transform your life for the better if not for the best and i quote from him decisions determine destiny and it really is whatever and whoever you are is because the decisions that you made in life this book would allow you to take control of your mental emotional physical and financial destiny after reading this book you would have a lot of realizations about your life why you’re living in your current conditions and what you’re gonna do to change it because a lot of us are just living life not knowing that we have the power to control it i am not sure where he wrote the power of eating clean and the right combination of food for maximum performance i’m not sure if it’s in the awaken the giant within or in that limited power i’m sorry but i suggest for you to read it both and figure it out yourself but if you’re not into reading you may opt for audiobooks i mean you can listen to it while you’re driving or riding a bus or doing the dishes there’s a lot of time if you know what i mean and then let’s talk about the last of my favorite self-help authors but hino i know that napoleon hill should be on the list because i guess is the father of self-help books but i just have only read one of his books which is the classic of meeting the devil which was so so good after this day i’m still reading my highlights and annotations in that book because it really gets me into getting into action especially when i am drifting away but you know i won’t talk about him just yet not in this video the last of my favorite self-help authors is roger dawson because of i became a fan of his personality types explanations and everything i so so adore him because he was a genius he was so good this book is you can get what you want i forgot this book is you can get anything you want but you have to do more than ask i think it makes sense because if you are familiar with the law of attraction that law will teach you to ask believe receive but it somehow lacks the appropriate steps to get what you want in life because it teaches you to trust your subconscious mind to do the work you have to align yourself with the vibrational frequency of what you want in life and then it will be given into you as simple as that if you ask me if the law of attraction is true yes it is it’s a universal law and it’s true anyway this book will literally and figuratively make other people believe in your capabilities and in return you can get what you want in life is it a promotion do you want to get the first in line do you want to make other people change their beliefs you can do it and what i especially like about this book is that there are techniques into getting there you just don’t do it your way because most of the time if you do it your way you lose credibility and worse you may meet some enemies in this book you will get to know different types of people and so use your knowledge about it your own advantage i mean some people want to do things immediately but some people just don’t they take their bloody time one week two weeks oh my god so what would you do if you are the hustle king and you meet the turtle queen how will you deal with it this book will teach you that and more importantly you will be equipped in the knowledge of identifying them but you know i have another book which definitely dealt with the poor personality styles but i will not tell it in this video but you guys let me know if you’re interested because i may make another video featuring another self-help books because right now i just have remaining one book it’s power negotiating by the same author roger dawson i think i bought this compulsively i bought it together with robert green’s the loss of human nature and it’s the last two books of 2019 if you will so basically i don’t know anything about this book maybe it’s about negotiating but you guys i bought it because it’s from roger dawson that’s all haven’t done any research i am not the kind of a reader who buys a book aggressively because of the cover but i am more off because of the author i hope that makes sense so yeah i hope you’re still here i am about to end the video just hung in there for a second i’m almost there but these books are my treasure i mean one two three four five six seven seven golden precious books which transform my life i hope it will transform yours too so do you have plans in reading any of these books or have you read any of it already please let me know in the comment sections down below as i would love to hear it from you thank you so much for watching i hope you enjoyed this video i will see you on my next vlog bye
