Men and intimate challenges? David Essel’s motivational minute
hi and welcome to David Nestle’s
motivational minute if you’re a guy
could be even over the age of 40 years
old the odds are at some point in our
existence all men are gonna face
intimate challenges I’ve got a couple
ideas to help you through them for the
past 30 years as a number one
best-selling author counsellor master
life coach and more we have helped many
men get in touch with their physical
decline of intimacy and be able to for
some turn it around for others to accept
and for others to say hey you know what
I’ve been stressing out a lot about
something that’s a natural occurrence
I’ve got some thoughts and ideas for you
today
it could be premature ejaculation it
could be that our erections we just
can’t hold as long anymore it could be
that our desire for intimacy of any form
whatsoever have decreased dramatically
and these are all normal parts of the
human aging process it doesn’t mean
there aren’t things that we can do to
turn it around but the number one thing
I’m going to say is this is not abnormal
now if you smoke and that’s going to
decrease the chance of you having a
healthy sexual experience and sexual
lifestyle because it will diminish blood
flow to that area of the body decrease
an erection strength and set and several
other things that happen with nicotine
alcohol can mess around with our sexual
desire can increase it while we’re
younger can actually decrease it as we
get older we start to drink more and
think about intimacy less there’s a lot
of things that I want you to think about
though let me line it out pretty simply
number one if you’re struggling for any
reason whatsoever get a full hormone
profile done and if your doctor isn’t a
hormone expert find one in your area to
do it to see what the estradiol levels
are what your free testosterone regular
testosterone how your adrenal glands are
functioning DHEA there’s all kinds of
different things we’ll find from a
really good blood test that includes all
hormonal check ups so that’s number one
number two talk to your doctors about
outside help in other words you have
cialis we have viagra we’ve got a lot of
different products a lot of guys have a
hard time emotionally asking for
assistance we feel embarrassed we feel
that that’s not being manly hell we just
have to accept the aging process and
look around
see what else is out there there’s other
type of hormone supplements that could
be helpful from your doctor as well that
might increase like human growth hormone
function in the body might increase
testosterone function in the body and
here’s something a lot of people don’t
know you might have low testosterone and
you might have high estrogen or estrogen
and that could be a reason to we want to
get those two in balance and if they’re
out of balance it can have a lot of play
of havoc on your sensuality and
sexuality if I can help you from an
emotional component dealing with aging
how to talk to your partner about the
decrease in your sexual drive or the
decrease in your sexual functioning and
you just don’t know how to bring it up
let’s work together for 30 years I’ve
helped people from all over the world
with every imaginable challenge in life
and this is a normal one one that we
don’t laugh about joke about we take
very seriously and we have answers to
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