Lone Wolf – Motivational Video For All Those Fighting Battles Alone
I dare you to work on yourself for six
months I did this shut out the world I
dare you to shut out all the
distractions I dare you to give up
everything that is keeping you from your
dream if you have a dream don’t just sit
there get your ass up and make something
happen sometimes you just have the moves
do something make a car reach out to
sell me togusa me learn something new
write down what you need to do in order
to make a better life for yourself
and be brave enough to do those things I
dare you to take a stand today to say no
more I will no longer accept this for my
life I dare you to take action today I
dare you to write your goals down and
get someone to hold you accountable I
dare you to hold yourself accountable I
dare you I dare you to give up
everything that is keeping you from your
dream to say no to all the negative
influence
I dare you to pick up a book instead of
a drink I dare you to what part of do
you think you did yesterday I dare you
to prove me wrong I dare you to prove
yourself right as whoever you are and
declare that you’re going to claim a
bigger and better right for yourself I
dare you to make something happen this
week
to take massive action this week drop
everything and do something I dare you
to walk more than you talk I dare you to
do good for the sake of doing good I
dare you to tell no one about to be kind
for no reason I dare you to spend time
alone I dare you to say no with pride no
to bad habits to negative people to
wrongdoing I dare you to speak your
truth I dare you to dream bigger baby
than they told you as possible for your
life I dare you I dare you to walk your
own path wherever that leads whatever
they say I dare you to lock the world
out for a week and work on you work on
your dreams
you’re well and truly capable of living
at a higher level if you do or you don’t
it’s up to you ask yourself am I happy
with my life exactly as it is now am I
happy stay aware I help if you don’t
like to answer get to work work on
yourself
we’re harder than you think you’ve
worked in the past or just higher
standards more self-respect more
boundaries less be it’s your hailer less
better more positive less negative holy
those who dare to go after the life most
don’t have will ever have the chance of
living a life most will never have only
those who dare to fight for a great life
have a chance to live a great life
what’s it going to take for you to
change what’s it going to take for you
to realize your potential what’s it
going to take for you to be proud proud
of the person you are proud of your
effort proud of the person you’ve become
what is it going to take
human beings absolutely follow through
on who they believe they are and you
said said to me well I’m really gonna
work hard to stop smoking but you know
I’ve been a smoker my whole life and I’m
you know I am a smoker I know your days
are numbered you’re gonna be back
smoking cigarettes again because we all
act consistent with who we believe we
are
I tell people the strongest force in the
whole human personality is this need to
stay consistent with how we define
ourselves
if you define yourself as somebody who
is really conservative you’re not gonna
be crazy and act and that’s unless
you’re really drunk or something and
then you can say it’s the alcohol when
it really does you finally getting
permission to be yourself the alcohols
your excuse if you’re a really crazy
person you act crazy outrageous playful
you don’t act conservative because
that’s not who you are very often people
say well I can’t do that I’m not that
kind of person and I always say to
people really when did you define
yourself I mean really how many years
ago did you come up with what you could
and couldn’t do in your life how many
years ago most people if they really
look at how to live in their life today
it’s based on a set of standards a set
of beliefs that they made choices about
10 20 30 or more years ago I mean very
often we made decisions in our youth or
very young about what to believe about
what we were capable of about who we are
as a person and that becomes the glass
ceiling a few well that controls us
there’s a corny metaphor but it’s true I
remember one time I was with my family
at the circus and there’s a person there
and they had this big giant elephant and
you look at this elephant and they take
this little rope put around the
elephant’s neck and they drive this
stake into the ground and I mean you
look at this you know that elephant
could rip down the entire tent with
almost no effort and yet the elephant
doesn’t struggle doesn’t try why cuz the
elephant’s conditioned and they can take
that elephant conditioned the elephant
when it’s a baby elephant that’s how
they trained them when it’s a little
baby elephant it doesn’t have the power
yet they put a big rope around it and
they drive this huge stake in the ground
and the elephant fights and fights and
fights and one day finally that often
decides I’m not capable of pulling this
out and once that becomes the definition
of an identity of
anyone an elephant in this case they
don’t even try anymore it’s just who I
am that’s how it is that’s just the way
it is in my life I’d like to ask you to
take a look at any place you’ve got a
limitation ask yourself when did I
decide to accept that limitation and you
may not even see it as a limitation you
might see that just that’s who I am but
so often our lives we’ve adapted to be a
certain way so that we don’t fail or so
that people will like us or respect us
but it’s not necessarily who we are joy
comes when you’re spontaneous it’s
really hard to be truly happy when
you’re not being yourself and most of us
have no clue we are and so a big part of
my work if you’ve ever been to an event
you know is to get people or do things
spontaneously without thinking because
that’s when the real you shows up that’s
when the energy comes alive and when you
do that when you start to connect to
your true nature suddenly there’s energy
available for you to set a higher
standard for what you want in your life
that’s what this is really all about and
when I talk about standards when I talk
about you know shoulds versus muss think
about your own life I know there have
been areas in your life where some point
in time you just shift it and you raise
the standard in your life change because
whatever people have their identity
attached to they live we live who we
believe we are that’s just how it works
it’s just kind of like I give an example
look at your physical body your physical
body today is an absolute reflection of
only one thing
not your goals not your desires but your
standards the identity life for yourself
if your standard is you’re an athlete
then there’s a certain amount of
strength a muscle tone and energy that’s
available in your body on a regular
basis because that’s who you are and so
you do whatever is necessary to maintain
that identity again the strongest force
and the human personalities this need to
stay consistent with how we define
ourselves because if you don’t know who
you are you would not act once you lock
in on that identity your brain finds a
way to keep you there if you say you
know man I’m overweight I’ve always been
overweight I’m big-boned and that’s the
story you got
you’re gonna always find a way to get
back there that’s your settling point
that’s your identity that’s where things
lock in if you see somebody who’s in
really great shape you ask him do you
work out you know the answer yes how
often and they’ll tell you three times
four times five times a week whatever in
a seminar last people who here works out
at least five days a week and I’m
stand-up and you look around that room
and you know that they work out five
times a week as you can see their body
you don’t just get a result without some
kind of action without some form of
ritual ritual meaning actions you do
consistently now do you think you know
those people that are out there working
out five days a week do they have more
time than you do or I have for anybody
else of course not is that a wife less
busy of course not it’s just a must for
them they must work out that way and
they’ve made that turn their life
changed so I’m not saying you have to
work out five days a week
I’m just saying whatever you really want
once don’t get met consistently
standards do whatever you identify this
is Who I am and so it’s not so much
about changing your identity as there’s
expanding it you know deciding that you
know instead of your goals to lose 10
pounds which is not compelling what if
your vision was to get back to my
fighting weight you know this this year
this month this next 90 days I’m gonna
transform my body I’m gonna take on a
new challenge I’m gonna find some
technique or strategy there’s a million
of them that can reframe myself where I
want to feel a younger stronger more
vibrant than ever before here’s my
reasons because I want the energy to
really make my life work because it’s
tough out there and I want to be
stronger than I’ve ever been before I
only go in front of mirror and if I’m
naked not you know want to laugh I will
look there and take a good look and go
yeah I’m proud of whatever I see there
whatever it takes something’s gonna make
you laugh smile something that’s gonna
tease yourself but someone’s gonna move
you to another level if you identify
yourself in a new way and you own that
every day and that becomes the standard
how do you live you’ll find the way to
make that standard real money is the
same way think about it doesn’t matter
what’s happening quote-unquote in the
marketplace people that make money find
a way to make money no matter what don’t
they I mean most people’s standard is to
pay their bills so that’s what most
people find a way to do evil neck and
times get tough most people if that’s
their absolute standard to find a way
some people’s standard is pay their
bills most of the time and so most the
time they do some people standard is not
just to pay their bills but to take care
of their family and maybe even some of
their friends and they find a way in
fact you know some people may be in a
family where they don’t have enough
money to barely have money to pay their
bills they work through guts out and
then somebody their mother their father
somebody else their sister gets ill and
there’s not enough money to take care of
it nobody else has money and family they
don’t either but they find a way to get
that money to take care of their mother
or father don’t they and they their
bells they never could do it before why
the situation made them raise their own
standard and not everybody does that
somebody else in the family might have
money and still don’t take care of their
mother it all comes down to the inner
game my friends changing your life is a
change in the inner game the outside
world you can’t control but you have an
absolute control over this one if you
learn that dynamics of what shapes you
and identity is one of those simple
clear fundamental basics that if you
start to shift it everything else will
shift in your life as well some people
by the way have to have more than enough
money to do what they want when they
want where they want with whomever they
want contribute the way they want if
that’s there must they find a way I know
that sounds overly simplistic but it’s
true now somebody once said you can take
all the money in the world out of the
hands of everybody out of all the
wealthy people in the world who are
really successful give it other people
it wouldn’t take too long those people
have it back in their hands it’s not
because they’re manipular it’s because
they have a standard some are manipular
don’t get me wrong but they’ve got a
standard of what they’re gonna find a
way to make happen I’m just simply
saying to you take those three magic
words and live them raise your standard
if you really want to do it then I’ll
tell you the most important secret have
you ever done this have you ever told
yourself you’re raising you’re saying
okay I’m gonna go make this happen
I’m gonna go make this much money I’m
gonna transform my kids I’m gonna create
the ultimate relationship of my life I’m
gonna transform my body whatever it is
and then you don’t have strong enough
reasons and you don’t lose use it you
don’t follow through it’s because you
didn’t back up your standards with what
makes those standards real and that’s
rituals rituals all of the power is
whenever we do our raw
results coaching and we said Robbins
equals results late we get results with
people it’s the same way if you listen
to my ultimate edge programmer back in
the old days personal power or if you
went to one of my seminars you know what
I do is I take these huge challenges you
got and we break them down into little
bite-sized steps little things you do
each day that after you do them you get
so much momentum that it’s easy to
succeed you’re not overwhelmed you have
these victory day after day after day on
little things if you’d went to ultimate
edge I’m sure you learned about the hour
of power or the 15 minutes to be able to
be fulfilled or 30 minutes to thrive
where you literally just conditioned
your body and emotion with a couple
little rituals so it doesn’t matter
what’s going on in your world you feel
that strength and it’s not fake it’s not
some pump up it’s coming from inside you
and it works rituals define us see all
the results in your life are coming from
your rituals they start with a standard
and then have rituals that follow it up
like for example if you are where you
want to be physically you have very
different rituals than if you’re not
where you want to be physically if
you’re overweight you and I both know
you got a different ritual than if
you’re physically fit completely
different you get up in the morning
what’s the first thing you do if you’re
fit your shoes are there you roll over
the minute how you feel you put on your
shoes you lacing you start walking or
whatever that ritual is if you’re
overweight you roll over and you have a
very different ritual you might roll
over several times to turn the alarm
clock off you go in and get your mocha
mocha whatever you know special coffee
stop by at Starbucks or over the case
maybe have your nice sugar muffin you
know it’s supposed to be really nice for
you whatever you do it’s a different
ritual if you have a great passionate
relationship you have very different
rituals and how you come home than if
you have a lousy relationship you come
home and the first thing you do is
you’re tweeting somebody or you’re
emailing or flipping on the news or you
don’t even come home and what are the
rituals
whenever I study people that are
successful well I look for is what’s the
standard they hold himself to and then
what are all those little rituals that
up because think about it success and
failure are not giant events they don’t
just show up you just suddenly become
successful or suddenly have this
cataclysmic event that makes you fail
may look that way
but failure comes from all the little
things its failure to make the call its
failure to check the books its failure
to say I’m sorry its failure to push
yourself to do things physically that
you don’t want to do and all those
little failures day after day come
together until one day some Cataclysm
event happens you blame that that event
happened because you missed all the
little stuff do you agree with me and
success by the way is not some overnight
event it’s all these little things
success is having a vision success is
making it compelling success is really
seeing it feeling it every day was
strong enough for reasons success is
feeling the sense that I’m here to grow
and I’m here to give to something to the
world more than just myself success is
caring about other people success is
calling and saying I love you in the
middle of the day for no damn reason or
sending a note that will change your
relationship have a ritual of something
funny playful or a surprise you do how
many relationships are dead today
because they have no surprise rituals
anymore you need to have some rituals
and cool things you do that nobody else
does that gives you a better life than
anybody else has all the little stuff
that’s where success comes from in
business it comes from delivering more
than anybody could imagine all those
little things add up people go wow
that’s who I want to do business with
it’s true in any area of your life so if
you look at somebody’s really successful
you think wow I mean they’re so amazing
there’s such a genius you kind of dig
underneath you got to remember something
people are rewarded in public for what
they’ve practiced for years in private
myself and my business people say how
you get up and speaking of nono-chan you
go for three days and nights and the
room is like it he’s wired it’s
incredible it’s like a rock concert how
do you do that how do you get that
confidence home and you know it’s not
confidence it’s experience now but I did
so much behind the scenes and I still do
to make things right I mean how many
people would know that since the time I
was 17 years old before I walk on him
stage still do to this day wouldn’t need
to do it but I still do it I never walk
out there without being in an absolute
peak state of mind you know there days
my back is hurting my throat was hurting
or I may have a challenger my father
passed away and I
got to deliver for these people because
my standard is give my all every time
everything has to be better talk to
anybody has been to our events for 5-10
years some of our trainers you know say
I don’t know he does it he’s always
finds a way to make it better that’s not
an ego thing that’s a spanner than me I
have to find the way and my ritual
though is I prepare I think I gather new
information I figure out how to put
something across better what do people
need I spend time with our customers I
see what’s going on and before I get on
stage each time I have this little
ritual to put myself in a state of mind
and I did it starting with like 17 years
old I started doing it say I now command
my subconscious mind and I say this out
loud several times this little phrase
set of phrases as an incantation to kind
of conditioned my mind and body and
that’s an now command my subconscious
mind to direct me and helping as many
people as possible today by giving me
the strength and the emotion and the
humor and the brevity whatever it takes
to show this person and help this person
change their life now and I started that
with a person when I work with people
one on one I will do that for 45 minutes
driving in my Volkswagen to go serve and
coach somebody for the first time now I
don’t say that person I say these people
and I can go out in the room of 10,000
people and deliver for 50 hours and I do
it every time I come back on stage it’s
a ritual a ritual to go into Peaks they
Peaks they don’t just show up it’ll
interrupt you great ideas don’t
interrupt you got to pursue them I
talked to Michael Jordan I’ll never
forget dad the peak of his career and
got to watch his final games saw him
backstage and spent some time with him
and there’s pretty exciting time is
greatest basketball player and I think
that ever lived and hazard ellipta and I
asked him I said you know what sets you
apart Michael you know what is it and is
it god-given talent ability skill what
is it you should tell me you know he
said I can shoot you straight you know
it’s not you know me trying to act
humble he goes I have a lot of talent a
lot of god-given tell a lot of skill
I’ve worked really hard but he said
really it’s my standards he said every
day I demand more for myself than
anybody else could humanly expect
I’m not competing with somebody else I’m
competing with well I’m capable of hmm
magic formula because most of us lower
our standards why because who you spend
time with my friends is who do you
become one of the biggest reasons I
started going to seminars when I was
like 17 is I had nobody around me is a
great role model I could read about
somebody but being around people being
in that environment was very different
finding where to go to work with someone
who lived that standard of life was very
different you get around people at low
standards and you compete with it you
don’t need to compete with it it’s like
okay I mean remember Jerry Springer I
know if he’s still in the air but you
know I’ve never used to get people on
the show I thought where would he find
these people watch they watch these
people go my wife’s know pretty darn
good come here that person look at them
you don’t have to change your life all
you have to do is find somebody with a
lower standard you’ll feel good about
yourself but if you feel that good
feeling it’s an illusion the only thing
that’s gonna make you happy my friend
and this year or any other is to step up
it’s to raise the standard it’s to
discover what you’re capable of and feel
that incredible power of pushing through
whatever is holding you back and get to
the other side of more of your true self
that’s what this game is all about and
look at the best of the world anything
Tiger Woods what’s what’s his vision to
win golf tournaments no to be the best
that ever lived that’s his goal that’s
his vision but here’s what’s interesting
he backs it up with rituals if you just
have a vision and you don’t have the
rituals stop lying to yourself his
rituals are he started doing things
nobody did before he went started
lifting weights golfers lifting weights
no way he went out and he changed his
sling when he was the best in the world
because he realized already be the best
that ever lived he’s gonna have to
change his swing if you don’t thing
about golf you don’t change your swing
when you’re the best and he went and
retrained himself because he has
different rituals than other golfers now
many people are modeling as rituals to
get better it’s amazing you know you
look at somebody like Michael Phelps the
2008 swimmer won seven you know only two
people I think in history if I remember
correctly that have gotten seven gold
medals in one session
and here’s a guy he’s got number six
centers belt he’s exhausted and he’s
going in for that final swim I’m sure
you remember and how does the guy win by
one hundredths of a second
do you think that was some massive skill
that got him over the top or was it a
standard that says this is Who I am I am
the champion and no one is taking this
from me and somehow in those finals
milliseconds hundredths of a second he
pushed himself just beyond his
competitor but you know how about
Michael Phelps would allow them be able
to push beyond that moment is this
rituals go study the guy most people who
swim have these unbelievable workouts he
does two and three of the workout
sessions a day all the other swimmers in
the beginning thought he was insane you
can over train you can’t do that it’s
not physically possible but he had a
standard and the rituals to back it up
so here’s my final message to you
because I’ve gotten carried away I was
gonna send you like a five-minute
message but you can see there’s no
script here it’s just me go a little
crazy with you but I want to really see
you get what you want this year don’t
let this year be like last and if last
year was great still don’t let it be
that way raise the standard if your life
is perfect and extraordinary you darn
well know you’re not gonna be happy
unless you keep making it better that’s
what makes us feel alive it’s not what
we get to make us happy it’s fully
become and what we’re able to give
because we’ve become more that sense of
contribution is what creates the deepest
meaning so here’s my assignment for if
you want one if you want to go from
conversation to some action your simple
thing to do what’s an area your life
right now that you really want improve
well it’s an area that’s important to
improve it’s your body’s great how about
your career if careers great how about
your relationship intimate one
especially or your kids or your
relationship with your Creator spiritual
side of your life or is it your finances
figure an area that really matters
decide on that area number one write
down what your life is like in that area
right now specifically as possible so
you might say well I’m 13.5 pounds
overweight you know whatever the weight
is whatever the situation is or my body
fats like this or wake up exhausted in
the morning and you write the truth of
where you are right now
so you’re real clear or I’m not in a
relationship I say I want a relationship
but I
I’m not in one I don’t seem to find them
all the good ones seem to be gone is my
belief you know and I really do want one
but I don’t have it whatever your
definition I’m in a relationship and god
I wish I wasn’t in a relationship I’m
planning my escape wherever you are or I
have a wonderful relationship we’d love
each other but there just isn’t enough
passion just right the truth of where
you are the air you want to change what
right how it is and then the second step
is that’s where you got to be really
honest with yourself what are the
rituals that have put me there because
whatever results you’re getting even if
you don’t like the results there are
some rituals that are keeping you in
that place there’s some rituals of what
you eat or don’t eat how you move or
don’t move how you sleep or don’t sleep
there’s some rituals and the lack of
variety or spice or energy or focus in
an area there’s something you’re doing
and it’s usually not one thing it’s a
bunch of little things they kind of do
consistently whenever you think about
getting in a relationship whenever you
think about working out whenever you
think about money and get yourself in a
state of overwhelm you start thinking
about all the things you can’t control
just write down all the rituals you have
and then here’s the third step what do
you want what’s your vision and be
really specific I want to be my fighting
way I want to be the strongest I’ve ever
felt I want to be I’m gonna turn my act
whatever it is be specific and then last
step number four what are the rituals
that will get you there what would you
do differently each morning if you’re
going to be that kind of energy that
kind of strength how would you have to
how often would you work out what days
would you work out what time ritual
something you do consistently usually at
a specific time so becomes automatic let
me tell you something willpower doesn’t
last
but rituals can last a lifetime I bet
you have some rituals in your life right
now you’ve been doing for years even
though some of them don’t serve you
I’m just saying wake yourself up make
you want a new year and a new life you
don’t they need to start in January
first start today start with this little
video and just begin to see what happens
and see how easy it is to just do a few
little rituals don’t do them all just do
two or three new things and you know
what happens you’ll get momentum if once
you discipline yourself in one area life
you feel yourself doing in other areas
as well I always say something that my
original teacher taught me I always
remind people there’s always two pains
in life
there’s the pain of discipline or as the
pain of regret and discipline weighs
ounces as my friend Jim Rohn taught me
regret weighs tons you don’t have regret
so right now what do you want to change
what’s it really like one of the rituals
that got you there that will take a
little homework if you’re not sure ask
the people around you they’ll tell you
what your rituals are what do I really
want in depth where the rituals that
will get me there and then get yourself
to start a few those actions and lock
them in place so I can help you in any
way we’re here as a company to support
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starting with you if you make the change
in yourself you’re gonna be proud this
year and no amount of money or accolades
other people can mirror the feeling of
being proud of knowing you’ve taken back
control of your life or you’ve taken a
great life to another level
once you do that you have something you
can give other people whether it be your
kids or your friends or your family and
ultimately that’s why it’s about
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