LET GO OF YOUR EX – Best Motivational Speech Ever (MUST WATCH)
so when someone lives your life you have to trust that they served their purpose now it’s time for them to move on now it’s time for you to say goodbye it’s time for you to let them go goodbye is never easy with the ones you loved but now that’s done and over with you left to the void whether love once was and that becomes a process of picking up the pieces trying to obtain closure you feel like you are without and you have to surrender the fantasy you once had of them but you keep thinking about what wonderful memories you shared with them and it hurts because you are thinking that if only things were different they would still be with you you may have begged them to stay you may have apologized for all the times you hurt them but your ex still has chosen to move on i know that is hard to accept but it’s over but all your forgetting is all that function that led to a breakup why do you want someone back who cheated on you or lied to you why do you want to be with someone who discarded your feelings who discarded you stop chasing people who choose to walk away because you will never experience happiness you seek from them sometimes the best thing that can ever happen to you is when you’re in a position of being single all alone because that’s when you encourage your search within yourself to find the answers to take a long hard look at yourself and find what you need to improve leverage the pain from your breakup and use it to become better why are you holding on to this vicious cycle of helping from one relationship to another without ever giving yourself time to heal you are bringing the same version of yourself into each new relationship and expect different results do you not understand that nothing is going to change until you have that you are going to go through one disappointing relationship after another until you work on yourself if you truly have faith in god and you will trust that he has your back and god saw your acts as your best option and he would not have allowed the relationship to end so because at the end god is saying to you that the two of you were not compatible so let them go let them go i know you’re afraid of being alone no matter what you do you can’t get them out of your mind thinking that someday they will see the lie and come running back to you and the more you obsess over them the more power you give away ultimately what you are doing is preventing yourself from being free you’ve become the prisoner because you won’t let them go but i say it’s time to take your power back stop stalking this social media stop reaching out to them in hopes that they will respond back have the courage to make the transition away from them if you have children with your ex then it is different yes you must step up and be a part of their life but but that doesn’t mean you can’t mentally and emotionally detach from your ex you can choose to heal the pain and still handle your responsibilities as an adult you were meant to listen to this message because this is what you need to hear and no level awaits you in your future there is someone better out there that you would effortlessly attract into your life someone with who you will feel even greater connection with and this person will love and accept you for who you are they will come into your life when you let go of this stuff that no longer serves you i know it’s scary to let go for what is similar to a future that’s unknown but learn to work by faith your path will become more clear as you walk down regardless of what you’ve gone through you are now knowledgeable of the qualities you really need and wanting someone in your life if your ex was a herb communicator then prior attacks on someone who is a good communicator but what you really want is out there it’s normal to feel like you’ll never love again i’ve been there but each time i was always proven wrong isn’t it weird all life can knock you down and seem so unfair when you’re faced with heartbreak but then further down the road a new door opens a new person walks in your life and blesses your life they make all the pain of a knee without proud to meeting them worthy so i encourage you to do what is right for you not for them they may try to convince you to stay friends while they go out on dates but all that really does is delay you from moving forward i want you to be brave and take the leap of faith one of my favorite motivational speakers once said why do people prefer known hells to unknown heavens think about that your heaven is ahead of you waiting for it waiting for you to walk towards it the closer you get to it the more attracted you are to its mysteries let go of your eggs move towards the light and find our treasures there waiting for you you
