HOW TO FIND YOURSELF – Best Motivational Video Speech 2020
we bring to our experience our own
stereotypes and expectations and we
color the world with our own
interpretation and so it’s this notion
that our experience in the world is kind
of a dance or kind of like a
collaboration between what’s coming in
and what we’re bringing to the table and
so what that tells us is no we don’t
have a direct experience of reality we
don’t have an empirical experience of
reality we don’t see the world as it is
we see the world as we are energy is
always flowing out of us to people and
things around us and one of the ways to
get enlightenment is to first stop the
loss of energy then you harness that
energy from going out of you you would
droid until you concentrate a new
channel and energy up your spine into
your head to awake and higher states of
consciousness but in order to do that
you need to conserve as much energy as
possible the more people you have in
your life the more things you have in
your life the more energy you expend
that which you do not hate you will
eventually tolerate average becomes sort
of like this slow asphyxiation it’s
almost like an anesthetic and that over
time would become kind of immune and
dulled to the average that we’re
becoming you know you don’t magnify the
degree to which the pain ought to be
affecting you and so really what he
means on that is listen you’re gonna get
out of your life where you’ll accept
that’s really difficult for people I
think to understand is look what you
think you’re worth and what you’re gonna
tolerate is absolutely what you’re gonna
bring into your life dominant culture
that is designed to destroy your sense
of self and your belief into yourself
and and you have to learn ways in which
you can begin to connect with this power
that you have within yourself to handle
where you are the key is to be
constantly in a perpetual process of
discovering the truth of who you are
and fighting constantly to look for ways
in which you can escape the inner
conversation there’s a lot of obstacles
that we’re gonna face in our lives
whether it’s on a football field a
basketball court or just in life in
general and if you’re not really willing
to fight and give it everything you have
as long as you’re alive then what are
you really doing it for is if you’re not
feeling well would you go online right
you look at people standing at the bus
stop for 10 minutes waiting for the bus
they get uncomfortable with being with
themselves they pull out the phone and
they start engaging with something I
guess to actually be with you it’s
probably one of the most challenging
things you can face a lot and the whole
purpose were the monasteries do you
strip everything in everyone away from
the person and they only left with
themselves and I thought I was gonna die
I saw scenes of my life and I was
surrounded by the people that I loved
and my instant feeling was I’m gonna
miss that
and they’re gonna miss me that
realization is like oh my god at the end
all you’re gonna wonder is about your
family and your friends and people you
loved and all they’re they’re gonna miss
you because you’re gonna see scenes of
your life surrounded people you love at
the very end and I’m like so live your
life so it’s this epic beautiful movie
the insight is when you are listening
inside is when you go to introspection
inside is when you meditate inside is
when you learn to listen to your heart
or intuition and insight is what you
call a Satori moment it’s grow true
awakening like I let myself sort of feel
the pain and the difficulty of being not
where I want to be in whatever that
areas was you know spirituality my
relationships my money
I let myself feel that pain just as you
know there’s two motivators right
there’s the gaining of pleasure right
wanting to go get something chasing the
dream but then there’s the avoidance of
pain and for a lot of champions that’s a
pretty big driving force for them and so
at least for me I love urge both of
those things on me to get myself to take
action dare to be willing to question
everything you thought you knew dare to
dissolve your own dogmas dare to be
challenged there to see the world
differently today than you saw it
yesterday motivations crap motivation
comes and goes when you’re driven
whatever’s in front of you will get
destroyed
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what you really want wants you to
because what you really want versus what
you think you want what you really want
comes from the soul and what you really
want because your soul is part of this
larger universe it wants you to and so
don’t tune in to the rules of the world
that tell you who to be or what to want
or what to do instead be who you really
are listen to that soul and know that
what the soul wants the universe wants
you to have and this is when the magic
happiness and we we don’t have
priorities in life most people don’t
have clear priorities in life
simplifying first the people and things
into your life into who and what’s most
important
taking that finite energy that you have
each day and focusing second step is
learning out of focus and concentrate
that find out amount of energy into the
people and things that truly matter I
think for me optimism though is
definitely then it can antidote right
it’s my way of raging against the
darkness you know living in a space of
possibility living in a space of pronoia
as an antidote to paranoia right
paranoia is I connect the dots and I
think that everything could go better
than it’s been going before that things
might get better that we can’t overcome
that we shall overcome so it is a choice
you make because a lot of people look at
their scars as a bad thing a lot of
people try to hide the pain that they
range
I believe that your scars will show that
you overcame whatever tried to break you
the more weakened into a reward
ourselves with bliss we’re not gonna
lose our dissatisfaction we’re not gonna
we’re not gonna lose that so for me our
brains cuz dopamine hit you get when you
do something successful if you
constantly cheat yourself out of that it
right biomechanically in your body less
and less in the future where you want to
achieve the next level the next dream
the next step and that’s why so many
people stall out in life they didn’t
they got to a certain point and they
cheated themselves out of the bliss out
of a celebration it’s important that we
celebrate our wins we celebrate our
lives because it causes us to want the
next bite it keeps us hungrier not the
reverse we have the ability to go in
such a space if you’re willing to suffer
and I mean suffer your brain and your
body once connected together can do
anything I always say you should never
pursue happiness and don’t pursue
happiness pursue a lifestyle where the
byproduct of that lifestyle is happiness
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you can find things to be grateful for
in that space man as your life going to
be rich when there really are external
things to be grateful for
so my first mechanism out of that space
was honestly to stack the things I was
grateful for and I started reinforcing
it over and over and over again and what
happens is there’s this reticular
activating system in our brains right
and all of a sudden I was giving myself
all of a sudden all these things start
to come into my awareness that I’m
grateful for it’s crazy how when you
shift your identity at a subconscious
level the world shifts that remember
what Michael Beckwith said the law of
attraction is incomplete it’s really the
law of resonance when you change who you
are
the world will shift to make to ensure
that who you are is true so it starts
inside
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