How I Become A Better Life Coach Than Tony Robbins
Okay this video we're going to get real here all right get your earphones on there will be some explicit language you're going to be offended all right if you're not offended in this video i've failed i don't want you to get offended uh.
At me it'd be your mind anyway that's your choice i want you to get offended by the truth bombs we're gonna drop in this video and again this video is to fly people up all right it's to fire people up some people get fired up to hate me trying to slam me or whatever i want to get fired up take action in your life.
And that's that's the goal here all right so this this is this video is more aimed at men so if you're a woman maybe don't watch this video because you're both thinking of a douchebag all right more than you already do as it is i'm going to come across very arrogant.
It's going to be very abrasive so if you're female probably turn off all right um well if you're a feminine man don't if you're def definitely if you're feminine man turn this video now okay this is a very testosterone sugar driven video and i get a lot of emails thousands of comments you know i.
Don't keep up so if i don't respond to you don't take it personally that's why i created my coaching group okay i created my coaching group so i can get back to every person even in the coaching group sometimes i miss a question people hey holly holly and again always start the new thread always ask the questions my.
Coaching group is unlimited questions there's no question that's too noob too personal whatever ask me the question if you're embarrassed to ask the question then create just post anonymously you can po is an anonymous function in my facebook group you can post anonymously so get any questions about girls or guys or whatever you want are you on any.
Judgment just want to ask a question and get the answer matt my group's for you okay um i love helping people like i get off and helping people all right and i've been coaching people since 1996 with health and fitness this is my favorite thing to do in the day all right is helping.
People help themselves because i didn't have it easy you know a great single mom dead broke bad health shitty fitness no experience with chicks just you know had the challenges but i love it man because it's like i've got to have to overcome things it's made me a really really good teacher today and so i know how it feels to not reach.
Your goals all right and not know what's going on anyway this is a question this is from a person i think it's a guy it sounds like it's the guy he says i'm considering selling my laptop so i can afford access to the coaching group the main reason i want to get access is so i can get information on how to resell shoes.
He wants to make the cash i've been doing these videos recently with stockx but i've been buying like you know 100 pairs of nikes and then flipping them for double the price just doubling my money like doubling the cash you know spend five thousand or four thousand.
Eight hundred and make four thousand eight hundred five hundred back so doubling your money just flipping it boom um just to show people you know and this person says well i need thousands of dollars to be able to buy this i mean this is cute like again i'm i'm laughing i don't take offense you know this is like you know we're all going to.
Start somewhere all right how much will like this so this person really needs certainty can you guarantee how can you well if i sell my laptop for 200 bucks can i can you guarantee i want to become a millionaire or make a lot of money it's like dude like i'm assuming it's a god and again it's not directed at this person that's.
Directed people in journal i was the same i was addicted to certainty if i walk up to that girl and she i think she might say no so i'm not going to talk to her you know or if i if i do this if i ride my bike up matt lofty or i want to be the best or if i can't i can't win i won't turn up to the race so.
It's just like just this certainty [__] man all right there's no certainty in life other than you're gonna die okay and in between your birth and your death are you gonna live you know or you're gonna just just exist okay if we're addicted to certainty.
Then and that's okay like when i'm on a plane i want to have certainty the plane doesn't crash out of the sky okay there's a time for certainty and there's a time when you have to risk okay and part of the the the juice in life is when you risk [__] and you win.
And the favorite part of me is my life is when i risk [__] and lose and then i learn something oh that doesn't work or that person who is a narcissistic sociopath what can i learn from you know like always seek to learn seek to learn seek to learn and that's this person they're like what's the average turnover rate how much money will i make per sale.
Is the process used to sell shoes a bit more advanced is is it more advanced than just buying from culture kings and nike i'm not interested in buying shoes that are on sale or culture kings and reselling them when they go back to retail price i want a reasonably fast turnover rate but i'm open-minded like dude you're not open-minded all right.
You're you're living in a place of certainty you want to make thousands of dollars with [__] all effort and and [__] all stress that's not how it works man right if you want to do that then just marry a rich person or whatever and even then that's not that's gonna be satisfying you have money be.
Like i didn't know this [__] so again um could you help me out this please i really appreciate it i'm not trolling or seeking attention i hear you i'm serious about this and i want to use the shoe sales as an avenue to work for myself and progress in life you know i have roughly two to three hundred bucks that i can invest in the.
Shoes i don't want to screw this up i don't want to screw this up drew and i'd answer my question i'm answering your question and all right all right let's answer the question first of all drop the certainty all right i'm a better life coach than anyone else.
Out there tony robbins wayne dwyer they do great stuff and i've you know i've done thousands of hours of listening to their content reading their content and i've used a lot of their skills as well but i don't know anyone out there today in 2022 who's created more millionaires or more people earning six singers who had.
You know the average person would say no they got no talent and i'll turn them into a very successful youtuber okay or i tell them how to create a lifestyle where they can save a lot of money and don't like leak money because you can make millions of years about the bills you can make millions of dollars a year see how excited i get.
With this stuff you can make millions of dollars a year but if you're blowing millions of dollars a year as well you can still be bankrupt end of the year okay so it's about making coin and then in a way that is in with integrity we're not scamming people but also you're not leaking money with just useless materials excess and.
[__] all right so that's what i teach in my coaching group how if you i mean most people trying to lose weight okay people i i don't care about money i'm already rich how do i get skinny you know how do i get lean so my husband finds more attractive i'm like well you can do that but if you're a [__] what if you're still a what if you you go.
From a fat [__] to a lame [__] you're still a [__] and your attraction's not there you know probably even worse now because it's like you look better but you should be behaving better and you don't so it's like anyway so i tell people the deep stuff okay losing weight but what if you're still a douchebag what if an.
Arrogant [__] is a guy but you're looking muscular but you're still a douchebag or you still can't make your girl come properly because you're not making an emotional connection with her all right you're not giving enough time to you know get juiced up like it's so many things in life and i've made all these mistakes.
I'm not like you know i'm not god i just very very experienced now at age 44 45 in a couple of couple of weeks so the the certainty thing yeah we're addicted to certainty all right remember there was a girl uh 20 something female who stayed with me at my house here in adelaide in 2016. i remember some of the comments was like.
You know she's got a hooked nose she's going to look at a hook no she'll never become anything now she's got over 7 million subscribers on youtube making millions of dollars millions of dollars and she used to be so broke she stayed at my house to save money on rent and she was so broke she'd walked.
Him across the road to mcdonald's to use the wi-fi to upload content but i believed in her and then she started believing herself she's like i could do this i said you know i said matt you can do this all right there's no reason you can't be one of the top fitness health influencers out there all right.
No reason you can't and she did all right another guy um remember joey carp strong i created that name joey carmstrong um met him in 2014. like no one gave him a chance they're like oh you've got you've got criminal background you've been in prison you've got drugs no one gave the guy a chance i gave the.
Guy a chance all right where would he be today if he didn't meet me okay where would he be you know and that's not to me i heard look at me that's just to say look at my protocols they [__] work all right my ex is my resume all right this is my resume what marketing agency out there who did.
Studied business law or media at harvard or whatever has the results i have could could the person who has the media media certificate or phd in social media whatever could they create a joey carbstrom could i create a mad fit made limb burning etc could they create a freely banana girl all right when friendly first lived with me.
When i went to my old bike shop used to work at they made fun of her they said oh she's fat bro like she ain't gonna be nothing you know she's gonna be some sort of sensation or like what she where you know they made fun of her all right and then she turned out to become multi-millionaire now obviously we have different differences in some of these.
People that's okay this is personalities and i manipulated them to get them going and grow the community for their benefit everyone's benefit and people change and it's all good but my protocols work i have the experience right when i see someone anyone whether they're 60 year old 80 year old.
You know 10 year old kid like he could do unboxing and be famous blah blah blah whatever i just see you know call it schizophrenia whatever i hear voices that say this person can be really talented all right i get the [__] results man so if you're in this certainty world of work i don't know generator like i don't.
Know if you're coaching groups for me if you think it's not then it's not because you're too addicted to certainty right and i'm gonna tell you to take risks okay i'm gonna tell you to take the risks and if you're willing to take the risks like maddie she flew to asia from asia to my house.
And people said i don't go hang out with harley harley's a thinker blah blah blah imagine if she's okay maybe i won't do that you know maybe maybe what would happen to her if she spent her last thousand bucks on some marketing media agency [__] she would never become what she did today she took the risk she came to thailand then she come to.
Adelaide she listened to everyone i said pretty much about social media etc okay and boom all right same with joey castron took he listened to everything i said to all the action and boom now he's joey's making like six figures a year living in uk just talking people on the street handing out vegan brochures.
Six figures a year [__] awesome you know he's doing what he wants to do he loves doing it so good on him um other people are just so many stories you know if you if you've been watching the last few years you know you know i mean all that one thing all these people have in common all the people out there.
That i've helped up in life their careers every single one of them people have said at the start oh you're thinking about this person's famous oh this person can't do [__] or the other guy the abdullah the powerster guy you know he set the record across australia on a bike all right he went so fast i didn't.
Believe it until i saw it i was like damn that's impressive good work abdullah he's got tattoo sugar and rice you know what i mean getting the [__] done man but there's no one there's no one in the world who would have said our abdullah is gonna become an ultra cycling phenom all right.
You know no one no one no i don't want to give him the time and say hey where's your water bottle hey get a helmet he he turned to my house on time he had a helmet i think he had a freaking a shoe that was done with his shoelace dude you've got to get a safe helmet man he's wearing tracksuit pants and [__] like that's cool but i was giving them.
The tips for the average and people used to mock me they're like oh i saw you riding the other day of the guy with like a on a fixie with a skate helmet of a shoot like what's what's up with that man what's up that dude you riding with you know i don't care you know i'm here about helping people man some people flip on.
Me or not grateful they backstab me that's this that's just the drama of life i've learned to to understand that's part of the process back in the day i was helping people oh these people are going to love me it's all going to be great and i'll always have my back most people in life the more you help them they're more they're.
Gonna [__] try and drive the knife in your back that's just how it is okay just like if if you walk up to a tiger and it's caught in a fence or a net and you try and let it out the tiger's probably going to kill you and eat you does that mean you shouldn't help the target somebody yeah don't do that what i'll do i'll get some like i get a.
Tranquilizer gun shoot the tigers out sleep and then cut out the net and then run to safety okay it's just how it is man when i'm in thailand i'm helping scorpions or snakes across the road if i get bitten by the scorpion or bitten by the snake am i gonna hate snakes hate scorpions am i gonna hate.
People because some people just did the whatever you know no so what i'm saying is you got to take risks in life right if you want to have a rich [__] life you have to be willing to whis whisk it risk it put your heart in your sleeve show the world this is how it is and people are going to laugh at.
You and say oh you're not going to do anything in life blah blah blah blah blah and hey making millions of dollars getting laid by a lot of chicks or a lot of guys whatever you're into or you know living an amazing summer block i did or having ferraris or blah blah blah it doesn't make you it won't make you happy it'll make you.
Like yeah get that goal and then you'll be like cc i did become something but if you're if you're coming from that place of like competition motivates me to become prove them wrong that's okay but you know you'll be living in the big house.
With the partner and he likes you because you've got money and status and you won't really feel enriched and alive you'll start to feel [__] people don't like me because i'm hot or famous or rich hmm damn none of these people in my life would be around me if i didn't have money fame and or looks.
I feel pretty depressed where's the cocaine and that's what happens to a lot of celebrities youtubers etc so don't think you know don't get caught up in that yeah i'm going to hustle on the grind i'm going to prove my family i'm going to prove this person wrong that's that's okay for a bit you know like you can use.
That you know like challenging yes that's good but you want to find the balance point all right you don't become this monster in your head where you've got hundreds of millions of dollars in the bank they've just stood on so many people you're like people suck everyone's only unlocks me because i've got fame looks like money or blah.
Blah blah people suck i'm just gonna scam i'm gonna hustle them then that's when the people out there blow their brains out they just have a lot of mental health issues and they're multi-millionaires and some people out there will be like oh that's not true like if you've got money you're going to be happy.
They don't know the people i've known in my life okay i'll tell you like the more money you make the more problems you'll have the more stress you'll have then you'll start to if the more fame and money you have you go people just use me for my phone and money yeah they are you know a lot of them are.
Okay so that's why i've got people in my life you know who was still chummy with me before i had any you know internet frame or making coin or whatever that would just they would charge me with me before just because they like my personality they love me for me you know so i value that.
That's why they've asked me for favors i'm like boom i'm ready i'm ready to help the people anytime be i'm ready to help the people who were like they're for me when no one else was you know and this family's going to generally going to be they might not be there they.
Bounce don't knock over the sony buddy and uh you know so you just remember that there's got to be people who are there just because they're going to get something from you you know and as soon as i get what i want they're like bye-bye bye-bye how much time we got left two minutes so that's the deal the coaching.
Group is going to go up to 300 bucks next week because right now it's 250 usd it is the best deal out there feel like do you know what if so passionate do it for free people don't value what's for free you know people don't value what's for free they value what they have to pay and sacrifice for that's just how it is.
The people park a bugatti in a hail storm the people park a bugatti in the mud say or whatever they smoke cigarettes and just ash it in the ground and a brigade no they don't okay and they say like stupidly rich but wealthy rich so the more people pay for something the more they value it.
And back in the day when my coaching was totally free people didn't value it you know people would be late the higher the price it goes the more people are listening and taking action okay so the coaching price is going to keep going up keep going up okay so it's like bitcoin or jordan ones og.
Stock or whatever your nike max marinas they're going to it's going to constantly go up okay so if you do want to become a stockx champion boom i'm the man to ask that if you want to become a youtube champion boom i'm the man to ask for that if you want to become your fittest leanest healthier self boom i'm the person if.
You want to have great quality relationships find a girlfriend or a boyfriend or enrich the life that you currently have the relationship you currently have with your family or whoever boom i'm your man because i've made the mistakes i didn't just read books and parrot [__] i read stuff put it to loose and go [__] this works or.
This doesn't work this is just [__] this is just stuff that blowing smoke up my ass to make me feel good i bought that bought that product but in reality doesn't do [__] okay and then all in reality it's hinders my life okay a lot all the nutrition advice will be about that it's actually going to be destructive for your relationship.
Do keto diet lose weight yeah you're right your relationship's going to go to [__] because your cortisol is going to be so high you can't be fully present and really enjoying the moment consistently because your cortisol is too high who cares if you lose a bit of weight because you starved yourself you got to feel like [__] and you people.
Around you go yeah your mood is just up and down i feel like you're gonna make a fake rape claim about me i'll i'll pass thanks um so you remember that that's just people are you so radical you just didn't i don't hear these things from anyone else because that people are too scared to tell you.
The people who do know the facts let me tell you because they're scared of you know like your relationship is going to go to [__] man you know so it's like i understand the advice you're going to get from me there's nobody else in the world who's going to give you better total package lifestyle advice and if there is please let me know down below.
Because i would love to see what they're doing and use some of that content because i'm obsessed about giving the best having the best sharing the best all right so i'm the person who's ridden across australia solo in the middle of summer on a mountain bike to test out hydration and nutrition strategies while listening.
To you know podcast off the podca back in the day when you had a one gig podcast in 2005 2006 a one gig uh podcaster yeah you know a little mp3 player and you should have like uh you know maybe an hour or two hours of podcast on there all right i'll be listening the same thing on repeat repeat repeat repeat for like two and a.
Half thousand kilometers etc so say that's what i'm talking about that level of obsession to learn the best ways okay and you can have all my all my riches of experience just for joining the coaching group and ask me any question okay even though they ask questions youtube i want to use browse.
There's so much content to read okay this is this i i i give what i want i would want to receive okay i only sell the bikes that i would ride myself in and in the condition that i would think safe and performance driven okay i'm not about just like scamming people man like you can make so much.
Money scam people you're gonna be super depressed karma's gonna come for you and you won't have any enjoyment in money if you have the ferrari on it you won't enjoy it you'll be like those people out there just needing needing drugs every single day to feel good because they don't mean so [__].
Because they just feel so crap about themselves because they're scaring people they're scared people they took advantage of people's innocence and trust and you know making a lot of money but not enjoying that's why i sort of got out of crypto because i'm like man i'm making a killer money but i'm not.
Gambling all right scandling i'm not really enjoying it okay that's what i got out of the crypto style that's why i promote it like it used to i got lucky with it just pure luck but there's no skill involved with crypto buy and hold and then just ride the roller coaster just strap in and ride but i didn't feel the money i was.
Thinking i was like this it doesn't like a thousand bucks to me or a hundred grand or ten bucks but before just sold a pair of shoes made four dollars profit okay four bucks one count one two three four made four bucks a pair of shoes but the guy was stoked because the exact model you want i'm like okay cool no that made someone.
Feel good today yesterday i made maybe 380 bucks selling shoes okay but most people wouldn't go across the road to sell some pair of shoes for four bucks and it's a bit weird and that's why people have a low quality of life okay i don't have a really good quality life there's millions and.
Millions of people there's probably like two billion people in the world today who would love to earn four bucks from picking up a pair of shoes walking a few minutes to the madonna's car park and here you go here's the shoes he's four dollars profit and they're like.
Damn i made four bucks walking across the road is this real life there's a few billion people who would love to have that experience and most people watch this again the level of entitlement is killing your life potential all right well i don't have to like edit a video i remember back in 2014 i was coaching.
People on youtube it's i've coached so many people out and people be like oh i've got a hater or my mum says doesn't like her and then they quit or all this editing things it's like imovie is just like oh that's a cop oh you know this computer takes too long to upload and they quit you know and if they stuck.
At it 2014 so like eight years they'll be absolutely crushing it by now all right so again people addicted to certainty they fear judgment they fear social disapproval so much i remember in 2011 i was making snake and shark videos and spider videos people holly like no don't.
Do this man don't dilute your like your message and i'm like i like making shark videos i like making snake and spider videos i find it fun i like trolling on the camera like don't troll man like be professional and wear a suit and [__] like yeah you know you do you i'm doing me imagine if i listen to her advice would it be today i'd be dead broke.
Living with my mummy like they are i know that doesn't make him a bad person i'm just saying that's not the life for me okay i don't live my mama you know i love my mum but i can't live with her we have two different personalities there okay so it's all about if you want my start a lifestyle who you listen to you know who are you.
Going to listen to your parents if you want my lifestyle then do what i'm doing ask me for advice join my coaching group read my ebooks watch my videos i've got over 7 000 videos for free okay or if you want your parents lifestyle if you want your parents quality relationships listen to them simple as that if your parents are.
Kicking ass and that feel like you dream of becoming your dad or your mum then do what they're doing if something that i'm doing is dream worthy you know that'd be my dream to have like amazingly girlfriend like natasha you know or ride a bike or a blah blah blah or have.
A boyfriend like harley or bro but whatever then i can help you achieve those goals does that make sense like when i wanted to run faster as a 5k runner out of marathoner did i ask the people who don't run marathons who studied it well i read some books at university and this is what you did no no.
I went to thailand and trained with the kenyans and the ethiopian runners and i talked to the the coaches who the doped up coaches the coaches who dope athletes and asking what's going on there you know before i even took anything i said i've read bloodstairs oh iron i'll b12 oh sugar okay we need those things you know.
I talk to the kenyans man what are you how do you train what do you eat are you pretty sure you pour sugar in your tea wow that makes sense okay i'll do that well i'm running faster well cool you know not fast as an epo runner but for me i was that's absolutely happy with that so.
Same thing man like you want to you know you want to take advice people get results you desire and but again there's a lot of scams out there people out there with daddy's money or money's money and they're selling some entrepreneurship scheme and hey that's if you've got rich parents lucky you are you cool but you won't have their.
Results because they got they got parent they've got states they've got mommy's daddy's money okay that's okay but like that's not fair to be selling a program where you got daddy's money to fund it or you you scan people or you're taking steroids and all this muscles hey guys.
Don't take i don't take steroids i don't take steroids take so as if you want it's your body your choice don't lie about it to sell programs to noobs and you've got these people out there who's just scamming millions of people literally they're scamming millions of people saying i'm natural buy my protein shakes well and then they're making.
Millions of bucks but every single one of them every single one of them look in their eyes they had this fake vibe to them they look stressed they're focused [__] real life seem in the mall but hey man don't talk to me i'm gonna go you know but you're the viewer who's funded their lifestyle but.
They're like don't don't don't i don't talk to you see that [__] off well take a selfie [__] off get away that's reality man and the thing is most people never meet their youtube stars or their youtube gurus or whatever and so that they think oh harley you're just being mean you're being negative i'm just being [__].
Real with you i'm being [__] real with you okay the only people out there that's going to tell the real [__] because they're scared of disapproval they're scared of losing money they're scared of getting through whatever me i'm just scared of not telling the truth to people if it's really going to help you in your life.
I'm not going to tell you the truth about stuff if it's going to [__] your life up all right like i've got a friend who's got a baby and i know it's not it's not a friend but it's a guy i know and it's not his baby all right it's my mates baby okay but i'm not i'm not.
Going to say well i'm a truth teller i'm going to go and [__] up their whole everyone's life and maybe someone gets a shotgun and it kills everyone because because well i had to tell them the truth no i'm not saying [__] i'm not getting involved with all that you know i'm not going to tell him this.
His baby he's been raising for the last you know how many years it's my mates baby that's a pull out baby for my mate i'm not gonna you know i mean so when it comes to health and fitness i'll tell you the truth but i told that guy before he got that check i said dude like you know this is this is who she is all right so.
No i love her for who she is i'm like okay man cool i'm not gonna say i could be like the guy who said i told you so bro i told you so and then hey what wham's he gets he gets the shotgun out does me does her does everyone doesn't mate just because i was like i had to tell him the truth so but when it comes when you ask me a.
Question about this so i'll tell you the truth okay um when you when you're asking about lifestyle coaching i'll tell you the straight up truth okay so i do lie if it involves keeping people safe you know i remember i got to an accident one time the dude's legs all [__] up i was about to pass out it was so gory.
And um you know and he's like i'm okay i said yeah you gotta you got a big bruise on your leg you know i'm just [__] sweating i'm like [__] me i've never seen something so gory in my life it's finally happening to me in real life the motorbike accident now you'll be right mate you know like just you know.
Just just keep your head straight don't look down because you know you i think you're gonna just keep your head straight so your spine's not getting [__] up and then the ambulance came and [__] and i don't know what happened to the dude but his leg was [__] man before i thought they probably amputated it but i.
Lied to him he said he's got heavy bruising keep your neck keep your neck straight otherwise you could [__] spawn he listened to me he's just like okay i'm a shocker so you know like there's things like that um sometimes you have to lie to someone.
To help them for a little moment for a moment um you know like but i can tell you some crazy [__] stories man you know crazy [__] stories i can tell you stories i can't tell you on my facebook group i can tell you stories i can't tell you on youtube if i ever meet you in person.
I can tell you some crazy stories you know some stories you probably didn't believe happened but uh but maybe you can relate to them but there's stories that are so personal that involve a lot of people that i don't share publicly you know and sort of subpoenaed but even then you know if any of us is a.
Deal all right boom you