GAUR GOPAL DAS [ No One Can Stop You] Best motivational Video
you know something in the game of life
you’re playing a cricket match against
an entity called the mind no one on
planet earth can stop you from
accomplishing in achieving what you want
if you can
back
against the goog lease that the mind
pulls at you how many of you have
experienced that the mild Bulls Pugliese
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good when it comes to exercising and
jogging how many of you know that the
mind bulls boobies much’ soja
how many of you have trouble in studying
relax as students and you come here you
hear all of these things don’t get
distracted by whatsapp don’t get
distracted by internet pornography don’t
get distracted by Twitter don’t get
distracted by Facebook study don’t get
distracted by birds to do bird-watching
study all these distractions erotic
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I’ll tell you something my god why
because the mind doesn’t want you to win
the game of life how many of you wanted
to wake up early in the morning reasons
only one did I asked wanted to wake up
early in the morning and how many of you
have done something called as setting an
alarm clock and then after setting the
alarm clock that’s an alarm well you
want it or not it rings and when it
rings the mind puts its first goobie
what does the mind do by putting the
googly makes you clean bold when you do
the first sluice
you are out
you are out if you snooze you are out I
want to say one thing just one and
probably this will change the direction
of your life you know something when you
snooze the Allah what happens you decide
to give in to the mind spot and this is
how your morning begins by giving in to
the mind
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bold okay agua cam and dipping it
epidemic Ichiro otter by giving him and
it’s no problem giving in sleeping five
minutes extra is no problem the problem
is you develop the attitude of giving in
you tell yourself that what I decided
last night is not as important what is
important is what the mind sets because
we listen I’ll tell you something my
humble advice because it’s not just
about getting up in the morning it’s
about every aspect of life whether it’s
your work if you’re working whether it’s
your study if you study whatever we do
the problem is it’s not about one thing
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of life is limited Oh our chair was an
animal ooh monopolist and yoga
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oh don’t allow that smoosh there is a
concept called sledging in cricket where
the opponent team comes and gives gali
to the abridgement golly they tried to
distract them and take their focus away
one thing that Sachin is are told for in
the history of cricket is sledging
hasn’t bothered him this man is cool are
you cool when people do sledging against
you in the game of life are you cool or
you lose your cool there will always be
people who are out of control
can you stop a guy from criticizing you
can you start an opponent team from
sledging puts in a curse acting it’s
called things which are out of our
control people are out of our control
sometimes our situations in your control
many times no the guy who was batting
was expecting an in swing ball and
that’s what the bowler bold and one gush
of wind and then swing becomes an
outswing
and is caught out
a lot of things situations people are
just out of our control how many of you
think question paper is in your control
and when things go wild nah I’ll tell
you what happens with us this is what
happens with us you know we react
stimulus off a person sledging against
us criticizing pulling us down envious
of us conspiring politicking makes us
react and form out I do have a B start
reacting also and look at this this is
also sealed
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the question is do you want to be a 7-up
kin or oxy cool bottle of water and I’m
sure a lot of us would say oh gee he
looks tiny and thus in our life we will
always have a stimulus and we can choose
to respond because between the stimulus
and response is our choice a great
personality is not born in the maternity
ward a great personality is born by the
choices that one makes and therefore
when there are all kinds of stimuli we
have to learn how to respond if we are
not strong spiritually it is impossible
if we are not strong culturally it is
impossible all this sounds great and
good and we know yes but I want to do it
I can’t be a can of soda I want to be a
water bottle but is it so easy no that
is why coming here is so important that
is why this foundational ethics of
spirituality are so crucial in this age
as all of you are going to be successful
in your own areas of life if not cricket
per se and thus we have to learn how to
respond what is the most selfish one
lettered word
I easily everything revolves around I I
phone iPad iPod and the man says I paid
everything revolves around the eye and
what does I stand for i stands for
expectations I should be treated like
this I should be loved like this I
should be dealt with like this I should
be respected like this I should be given
these many marks I should not be given
this at all leading a life of super high
expectations everything revolves around
my opinions my desires my likes my
dislikes
I love this I want this I don’t want
this ai ai ai ai ai you think life will
be a very happy life when it revolves
around AI from my childhood we have
grown up like this you only learn to
take and everyone has to fulfill my
expectations everything has to be up to
my expectations therefore when people
come to God people come to Temple also
they’re only asking give me what I want
no one comes to say I love you I won’t I
want to give you when the President of
the United States John F Kennedy came up
to stage for his first presidential
speech his voice rumbled into the public
addresses too many said ask not what the
country can do for you ask what you can
do for the country and so we are saying
ask not what God can do for you ask what
you can do forgot but no one asks that
because the eye is so big my
expectations my desires my things are so
powerful that even when I come to a
temple and ring a bell all I’m doing is
asking
the more we lead a life of I are I will
always be frustrated because people
don’t exist in this world to just
fulfill your expectations therefore
ladies and gentlemen the most selfish
one lettered word is AI which stands for
expectations and therefore avoid this
word how do you avoid this word be
realistic in your expectations apeksha
economic way problem me but understand
that not everyone will fulfill your
expectation and secondly avoid this word
I by trying to serve others you know why
because when you want to be served
you’re dependent on people they may not
serve you when you want to serve who can
stop it when you want respect people may
not respect you but when you want to
give a respect who can stop you when you
want to be loved you will not be loved
but when you want to give love who can
stop you when you want and charity
people may not give you in charity but
when you want to give charity who can
stop you
and therefore learn to begin your
journey from I
the more you want for yourself you’ll
remain frustrated the more we want to
give you will remain happy when you want
to achieve success in your career in
your academics in your pro business in
your profession we will fail and that’s
the example of the giraffe
when the baby giraffe is born falls from
such a high distant straight on the
ground the mother’s positions herself
right above the baby giraffe and guess
what she does first gives it a hard kick
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just coming out of the impact Jessica
the mother gives a second harder kick
know the guy understands where my couch
journey to its alpha Riga silsila baby
giraffe starts getting up on its wobbly
legs you know on its wobbly legs and as
the baby giraffe gets up on the Bob
Elector kataoka karana see khanna
paddock or lot more Pema he gets up and
starts running and then the mother
giraffe goes hugs the baby and starts
kissing the baby you know why because
the baby giraffes flesh is very soft and
supple and hyenas and lions love it the
mother knows that I can’t be with the
baby giraffe all that I want to go and
get food for the baby
how would I protect it it’s labelled a
castle a tomorrow he would not seek a or
purchase it for alterna wake or LA
tomorrow
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jinda giving my mother giraffe Jessi
Kyle at Marty a we fail we should get up
and we’ll fail again
we should get up and like I always say
don’t just go through life grow through
life it’s quite amazing isn’t it but
when something stuck in our tooth the
tongue just keeps going to that tooth
until unless that stuff is out of our
toes it just keeps going there now this
31 other teeth in our mouth when nothing
stuck the tongue can go there and say
hey wow look there’s nothing stuck here
and go to one of the other two to where
there’s nothing sticking say hey look
amazing there’s nothing stuck here but
is the nature of the term that it keeps
going to where something is stuck and
surely we have to deal with it whenever
I travel in my handbag I always have
dental floss and a box of toothpicks
with me just in case something is stuck
I have to take it up certainly we have
to deal with it at the same time there’s
a lot of other good things that we can
focus on ladies and gentlemen it’s not
just the nature of the tongue
isn’t it the nature of the mind as well
when there is a problem an issue stuck
in a certain area of our life the mind
keeps going to that problem and just
gets stuck into the negativity of trying
to deal with it but this thirty one or
shall I say many many more good things
happening in so many different areas of
our life but there’s no problems no
issues stuck yet the mind only keeps
going to those areas where there are
problems it is necessary therefore for
all of us that we focus on the good that
is happening in our life and deal with
the bad or the problems that are
happening in our life let us not consume
our minds with negativity let us consume
our minds with positivity focus on the
positive and deal with the negative most
often if not always our life seem to be
out of balance and when lives are out of
balance it makes us very irritable you
know when we drive a car
we always drive a car and a car has four
wheels a rhetorical thing to say isn’t
it you drive a car on these four wheels
and these four wheels in the car of life
represent first we your personal life
your health your mind yourself the
things that you love to do the things
that you would want to do not have to do
most times we live a life of have to do
I have to study I have to work I have to
pay my bills I have to pay the taxes I
have to do this and I have to do that I
have to go for the social function I
don’t have a choice I have to have to
have to have to where did the love to go
we just end up living a life of half
dues and I forgot about our own selves
by subscribing to the pressures that
come from all fronts in our lives we’ve
forgotten to live our own lives
we don’t have time to unwind we don’t
have time to spend with our own selves
we don’t have time to be with nature and
take a deep breath and just relish the
crispness of the air we don’t have the
time to do all of that especially in a
metropolitan city like this when the
pressures are so high and the pace is so
fast we just don’t have time for
ourselves ladies and gentlemen and
that’s one car one we love our car isn’t
it personal life or health for instance
such an important thing but at the cost
of just running if you forget to pay
attention to our own health the second
wheel of the car is family life demands
attention isn’t it your personal life
demands attention your family life
demands attention isn’t it before
marriage veneer and love they call it a
crush isn’t it but after marriage all
that is left is candy crush all the
crushes are ain’t gone and all that
you’re left with is a candy crush and
all the headaches coming from all the
pressures one lady went to a doctor and
the doctor said how’s your headache
madam she said he’s out of town gosh I
must tell you
demands a lot of attention your personal
life the first tire do you have one do
you have a personal life is my question
do you have time for your health
even in my hectic schedule I have made
five days of exercise yes still in all
the lectures and all the talks and
everywhere I go because that’s what’s
going to keep me going I have to give
time to myself because I don’t get more
than three and a half to four hours of
sleep so if I don’t look at my physical
fitness I’m gone ladies and gentlemen do
you give time for yourself do you have
time for yourself your personal type or
is that wheel out of balance is that a
flat tire the third
we tire of the car of life is your
professional life
your personal life needs attention your
family life needs attention your
professional life needs attention and
the fourth is your social life your
friends people around you your
colleagues those relationships that
matter a lot to you those people who
would support you in time of need
because to your spouses to your family
you could speak a little sometimes
certain things are not always confided
with just blood relationships you need
that social side people do we can speak
open up your heart
how often do we just carry this baggage
of stress and load anxiety and worry in
our heads lugging it all around us
baggage this is a social site to our
life a friends you know I have had those
moments where I’ve snapped even as a
monk because I’m a human being just
because I put this robes of a monk
doesn’t mean I become you know a
celestial angel I’m still a human being
when one of those tires is out of order
if I haven’t slept well if my health is
out of place I’m going to snap out you
know you carry work pressures at home
you carry home pressures at work ladies
in German irritability is a symptom of
an out of balance life stability in our
responses is a symptom of a life and
balance we are irritable we snap we
react at the drop of a hat for trivia
just because we are out of balance
people who have a balanced life know how
to handle pressure
people whose lives are not balanced sink
under pressure
and get so irritable at little things
they just kind of snap off I am actually
a camera why should I place it believe
it or not you know when people shoot me
and they just post some clips that’s
fine with me but talking to a camera
it’s a machine it’s just some electronic
machine the camera doesn’t laugh
the camera doesn’t cry the camera
doesn’t have any interpersonal
reciprocation in dealings and I must
tell you I felt very nervous
thank you fearful as well to speak into
a camera was more fear of failure I
would say because you know when you
speak into a camera and if it’s relayed
and it’s put online how do people see it
otherwise when I’m with people people
have seen me speak and I’m silent when
the motive is to serve and contribute we
have to face our fears we have to deal
with our fears face them and rise about
them at some point of time I had to
decide to convince me so one day I
decided that’s it I have to come speak
in front of the camera the first time I
did it believe me we will post that
video once you must see me speaking
there stiff expressionless motionless
stoic nonchalant face you know and I
guess I’m kind of slowly getting better
because in order to deal with these
fears you have to face them it will
start somewhere
it’s a beautiful slide when followed in
life I guarantee you life will be
different I guarantee you if this is
applied in life we can have peaceful
night’s sleep here it is do you have a
problem in life No
then why worry do you have a problem in
life yes can you do something about it
yes then why worry do you have a problem
in life yes can you do something about
it no then why worry in the journey of
life as well the takeoff which is a
berth is completely beyond our control
we didn’t choose our parents we didn’t
choose which nation we vimana we didn’t
choose which city paper bonnet we didn’t
choose a socio-economic class beaver
bonnet we didn’t choose our looks we
didn’t choose the religion beaver bonnet
our takeoff of the journey of life was
completely beyond us and the landing
death even that could be completely
beyond us I’ve heard many times people
telling me that they would just love to
die by getting a massive heart attack
and dropping dead no trouble for them no
hospitalization no tubes no needles no
trouble cause two others in one shot
go now no matter how much we might wish
that it’s just beyond us how we go and
how the landing happens is completely
beyond us and what about the turbulence
the disturbances the problems during the
journey of our life
some of them are within our control
which we can solve for many problems and
issues and the turbulence cost is
completely beyond the control because
it’s caused by situations which are
beyond us it’s caused by people who are
beyond us yes ladies and gentlemen in
this journey of life the take-off the
planning and the turbulence is not in
our control what is in our control
however is the choices we can make
and therefore spirituality is about
learning how to make those right choices
when we learn to make those right
choices we learn to live a transformed
happy fulfilled life despite all the
turbulence and problems that are going
on around us
it is said when we are beautiful it’s
God’s gift to us when we live our life
beautiful it is our gift to God
therefore being a meal is a matter of
birth being a man is a matter of age
being a gentleman is a matter of choice
and as a corollary to that being a
female is a matter of birth being a
woman is a matter of age being a
gentlewoman is a matter of choice let us
all take to spiritual wisdom learn to
make the right choices which have the
dinner control as our gift to God and
thus live our lives as thorough and
perfect ladies and gentleman I was
telling the story the other day this is
my favorite story I just keep sharing it
all the time this is what really
happened you can’t believe this but this
happened i came to london heathrow once
and at London Heathrow I came to the
immigration officer and this immigration
officer elderly man he said so what are
you here for I said to give talks he
said then are you living in to Woodforde
center I said yeah he said how long will
you stay here for I said about two weeks
he said and can I ask you a personal
question
I said please sir he said I’m remarried
I said you were an Indian aren’t you I’m
a monk he said no I was just
cross-checking just in case
and then he said can I ask you another
one place I said yes he said are you not
missing anything in life he thought he
caught me at the wrong foot
are you not missing anything in life I
said of things I am he said what I said
problems you know what he loved my
answer
believe me hand on my heart he stamped
my passport and as I’m walking out of
the gate
he put his hand on my head blessing me
said son remain like this son remained
like this you will never have to go
through any issues and your problems in
life dad you know what I mean it’s nice
to laugh at but as I walked through the
gate I turned to him and told him look
gentlemen I must tell you something
don’t think that me as a monk is free
from problems anyone who lives in this
dog-eat-dog world as they might say or
anyone who lives in this world full of
directories and pressures whether it’s
you who are a student study or one a few
culprits of business people who’s
working or married man or lady who’s
kind of dealing with family life or
myself is a monk they are all subject to
our own pressures we are all subject to
our own stresses we our own subject to
our own individual worries and anxieties
this the flea was different
thank you guys so much for watching I
made this video because you’ll guess
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to know what did you learn from this
video what lesson really hit home the
hardest what are you going to
immediately apply somehow to your life
or to your business leave it down the
comments below I’m really curious to
find out I also want to give a quick
shudder to prime ad Kumar thank you so
much for picking up a copy of my book
your one word and taking that picture
and posting it I really really
appreciate the support man and I hope
you enjoyed the read thank you guys
again for watching I believe in you I
hope you continue to believe in yourself
and whatever your one word is much love
I’ll see you soon
but lady asked me after the session in
the Q&A session sir you said that you
were an electrical engineer why did you
give up your career as an electrical
engineer I said madam
I will give up my career as an
electrical engineer I upgraded my career
from being an electrical engineer to a
lifestyle engineer and I said to her
each of us based on a particular
faculties of knowledge she’ll be
contributing to the world solutions to
particular
engineering is all about offering
solutions to all engineering solutions
to trouble and I thought – one offering
solutions the problems we get the lights
and therefore life is all about
breathing red the meek breathing I was
mentioning this in the mantra lounge
last night
you can’t just breathe in and keep the
breath there can you you can’t just
breathe out and keep the bread bare can
you the smooth rhythm of breathing in
Sanskrit is called he again the fourth
chapter of the bhagavad-gita calls the
smooth rhythm of breathing as he again
where you take to give you take you give
it’s taking in giving out taking in
giving out yes we must take because if
you don’t take how will you give if you
don’t feel hope how will you bring hope
to someone we don’t feel loved how will
you bring love to someone if you don’t
feel uplifted how will you uplift
someone if you don’t have resources how
will you share this so have egg be
successful earn a lot get bear and serve
give your time give your resources give
your mind give hope give love give
something money is not where money is
just a part of it and you know obviously
all of you
obviously but it’s just the part of well
2nd of February 2005 I was lying in a
monastery
in Alaska on the wooden floor exhausted
tired from the in society last night and
suddenly a cyber month
all my friends came up to me and woke me
up say he’s leaving he’s leaving I gotta
get rid myself together rushing to go to
the room when my dear friend stoker
krishna das was leaving his body
memories were flashing from my mind as I
was rushing towards this room he was
amongst with me had stayed to be a
little bit stayed together at a certain
point he decided to move on and get
married
he went up he’d taken a job in the
hospital we love the person even
possibly as the library he just gotten
married his wife was pregnant and while
the wife’s pregnant she was diagnosed
with melanoma casques he decided that he
wanted to leave the body in the
monastery where he spent most of his
time we had got into aa monster as this
memories flashed in my mind and I was
rushing there I remembered every day are
interesting God’s name student of the
harmonium my tearful eyes as I cry
seeing a dear friend struck in melanoma
cancer every single time I looked at him
my vision was blurred because it was
someone sooty
yet this gentleman was amazing he had a
beaming face all the excruciating pain
that he went through hadn’t affected as
determined resolve you know headspace
limitless mine
no Martin was working on them unless
this stuff works
his wife forgiven but – baby girl they
brought the baby girl – right next to
her it was the last time she would see
them it was the last time his wife would
ever be with her
ladies and gentlemen as I walk to the
room my girl rather not Swami the author
of the popular book the journey home was
right next to him giving him proof I was
astounded inside the little room there
were so many people I was standing right
next to him with my guru Swami I would
say the whole hundred and fifty members
of her community
I want to either chanting the names of
God what I saw here was a man more than
a Lamborghini when I saw here was
support or a severe push people people
who were there to financially support
people were then mainly supported people
who were then to spiritually supported
people who have been to emotionally
supportive I was amazed and the time to
support this manatee in humbly when you
are born people love you and then you
die people in between your garage
and this method managed to email he
invested so much in relationships with
his people that the news and I need
people had come to them
ladies and gentleman yes it is important
for us to have support wealth doesn’t
just mean money wealth means money plus
people and support one gentleman said
the boobage the difference between
complete and finished he said if you
find the right partner you’re complete
so you find the wrong combination would
you find the right one catching you the
homeowner
the populace with only need friends with
a dread we need professional wrists we
definitely need people who get support
us and then when I say if you want to
talk truly how rich you are drop a tear
and see how many hands come forth to
wipe a tear
that’s how much you actually
