“DECIDE to LIVE in a Beautiful STATE!” – Tony Robbins (@TonyRobbins) – #Entspresso
rise and shine it’s aunt spresso time good morning belief nation it’s seven my one word is believe and I believe in you I believe you have an amazing gift inside you that I want to see explode out into the world so grab your coffee and sip on today’s message find fulfillment over to you Tony Robbins fulfillment is an art what’s going to fulfill you is differently at first and actually you’re not gonna learn that from anybody else and you got to find it because success without fulfillment is the ultimate failure and I get those phone calls all the time for the multi billionaire entrepreneur or politician or business person or a person just won their Academy Award and they’re depressed and they can’t tell anybody because they got all their goals but they’re not fulfilled because they really don’t have that sense of meaning in their life they went for something and they got it they achieved and if you doubt this one I’m saying is relevant to you or us or anyone just think about about a year and what a month ago we lost what I consider be a national treasure Robin Williams how many of you loved Robin lives look around the room keep the hands up look and most of you didn’t know him almost anywhere you go in the world people love Robin Williams by the way was he graded achievement oh my god that guy he said he want to make become a great comedian he did that I want to make the world laugh he did I want to make my own TV show he did I wanna the number one TV show he did it I want to make movies he did I want an Academy Award for not being funny not his skill set drama and he did it I want a beautiful family he did it and then he hung himself make everybody happy but yourself not a good plan so if I had a gift to give you it would be maybe make a different decision and a decision is that no matter what happens in your life you’re gonna live in a beautiful state a beautiful state and that could be happy that could be grateful that could be being generous those are all beautiful states aren’t they it could be curious it could be fun it could be playful you’re not limited to one state but it’s different than suffering and most people suffering and all suffering I’ve ever seen I traveled 100 countries I’ve dealt with presence of countries and you know presidents of businesses CEOs I’ve dealt with people in prison I got with you name it average people suffering always comes because you’ve obsessed about something related to you you can only be depressed if you’re focusing on yourself so now I’m depressed cuz my kids and and they’re not doing well no you’re depressed cuz you feel you’ve failed your kids it’s about you it’s about how you think you what you should have done or shouldn’t have done or what someone did to you or didn’t do to you in the past or the future which don’t even exist so I have a simple goal my goal is help people make a decision that says I don’t know what’s gonna happen you might get a divorce even though you don’t think so you might find a family of your family with cancer you might have your house get burned down or have a tornado go by and if you live in the same place it happens every two years and you move back we should talk but some people seem to do that for some reason you can’t control those things I can’t control those things I don’t want those to happen to you or anybody I love or anybody who’s even a stranger to me but they’re going to happen true not positive thinking both just the truth so if that’s gonna happen I say make a decision now that says I’m gonna live in a beautiful state and I’m gonna find beauty and whatever Life brings me cuz life is too short not to I love this clip and I agree that fulfillment and success look different for everybody and figuring out what that looks like for you what that really means to you that’s the ultimate game and that comes from just living life that comes from thinking about it’s self-reflection understanding what you love out of your life and what you don’t like anymore and need to eliminate and it can also come from exposing yourself to new ideas to new people to new mentors to help shift your thinking so that you can break free of your median environment and learn more from people who’ve gone on and done amazing things it’s why I’ve started the top ten roses success series its iconic on this channel and it really means a lot to me because my goal here is to profile all sorts of different people from all sorts of different walks of life and Tony Robbins is talking about success it’s through his lens and if Donald Trump is hakama success is through his lens and if the dalai lama’s hakama success is through his lens and oprah winfrey is through her lens and Priyanka Chopra is through her lens and so my goal here is to not say this is the only thing that success means but to be able to give you a wide perspective because what the Dalai Lama says is gonna be really different than what Donald Trump says but you can still potentially learn a little bit from both because the ultimate goal is for you to figure out what success and what fulfillment looks like for you when I first started it was only about entrepreneurs every video was only about entrepreneurs and the first top ten that we shifted from that I think was Michael Jordan because he is a successful entrepreneur he’s a billionaire but people associate him with basketball in sport and when we looked at his collection of advice we’re not gonna make a video on how to dunk like Michael Jordan but a lot of the wisdom that he shares is still applicable whether you’re not Jupiter or not and when I realized that like these perspectives matter and I don’t just want to show one side up you don’t just want to show what financial success looks like and so the game is for you to figure out what success looks like for you because when Tony Robbins says it or the Dalai Lama or Donald Trump or Priyanka Chopra they’re speaking their truth it’s what it means to them and that may be your truth but it may not be and so my hope is that when you watch one of these videos you try on the Hat you try it on and see if it fits see if you like it see if it looks good in the mirror you try it on and if you don’t like it you ditch it if you’re watching the top ten rules video and only two of the points speak to you you ditch the other eight don’t worry about the other eight those two things could be life-changing for you keep that hat on and disregard the rest the ultimate game in life for you is to figure out what happiness what fulfillment what success looks like for you so the question of the day today is I’m curious how would you define fulfillment for yourself what does that look like be is detailed or as brief as you’d like I would love to hear your comments leave it down below I also want to give a quick sharda to Jose Velez Jose thank you so much for picking up a copy of my book your one-word and doing the review and posting it on Instagram without awesome picture I really really appreciate the support man and I’m so glad that you enjoyed the book so thank you guys again for watching I believe in you I hope we continue to believe in yourself and whatever your one word is much love and I’ll see you again tomorrow morning for another shot event spresso I’ve never really been interested in living a balanced life you know I don’t I think balanced people don’t change the world first of all I think balanced people don’t really follow a dream you know this doesn’t mean that you don’t have responsibility he’s like just go to the other part of his question how can you have a family well sure you can have a family and have you know but balance is kind of like I feel like balance is like a made-up word it’s like it invented by corporations you know to make their employees think that they’re happy you know it’s like you got this balance like you could work at Microsoft you know or something here in Seattle and that there’s like 10 Microsoft people in the audience right no disrespect to Microsoft let’s get Microsoft’s Greg one out of every five people at work so my guess that’s right you know and it’s like you know you got you got this thing and maybe you love your job and if you love your job that’s great but I hear from a lot of dissatisfied people at some of these big companies and they write in there like I’m reading your blog for my cubicle and like you know I had this good job and I’ve got my health insurance I’ve got free yoga every Thursday but I’m not really you know fulfilled right I’m not really fulfilled so for me I guess I’m much more interested Network fulfilled like you know how can you live a fulfilled life and you can live a fulfilled life and still pay your bills you know lots of creative people do it lots of unconventional people do it and it’s I would say if anything it’s actually much more common now than it used to be you know when I first started working online you know 15 years ago I didn’t know a lot of other people who were doing that you know my friends thought I was selling drugs or something we were well I was you know but they’re like online gambling or you know whatever like parents have no idea how the internet works and stuff but now it’s it’s much more common so I don’t really like the word balance myself so what we’d like to do is we want to replace the word like living a balanced life is not the goal the goal is living off a filled life as you try to figure out the impossible task of juggling work and family and you hear over and over and over again that you just need a lot of help we just need to be organized we need to try a little bit harder as a very successful woman a single mother of three who constantly gets asked the question how do you do it all for once I’m going to answer that question with 100% honesty here for you now because it’s just us because it’s our fireside chat because somebody has to tell you the truth Shaunda how do you do it all the answer is this I don’t whenever you see me somewhere succeeding in one area of my life that almost certainly means I am failing in another area of my life if I am killing it on a scandal script for work I am probably missing bath and storytime at home if I am at home sewing my kids Halloween costumes I’m probably blowing off a rewrite I was supposed to turn in if I’m accepting a prestigious award I’m missing my babies for a swim lesson if I met my daughter’s debut in her school musical I am missing Sandra Oh’s last seen ever being filmed to Grey’s Anatomy if I am succeeding at one I am inevitably failing at the other that is the trade-off that’s the Faustian bargain one makes with the devil that comes with being a powerful working woman who is also a powerful mother you never feel 100% okay you never get your sea legs we’re always a little nauseous something is always lost something is always missing and yet I want my daughters to see me and know me as a woman who works and what that example set for them and I kept proud them they come to my offices and know that they come to Shaun to land there is a land and it is named after their mother in their world mothers run companies in their world mother’s own Thursday nights in their world mothers work and I am a better mother for it the woman I am because I get to run shaundalyn because I get to write all day because I get to spend my days making things up that woman is a better person and a better mother because that woman is happy that woman is fulfilled that woman is whole I wouldn’t want them to know than me who didn’t get to do this all day long I didn’t wouldn’t want them to get to know the me who wasn’t doing so lesson number three is it anyone who tells you they’re doing it all perfectly is a liar well I you know I think fulfillment it fulfillment is fulfillment in YouTube producer I kind of two different things I think fulfillment in general as a filmmaker for me comes from creating and that’s why you know in 2010 they put the soundtrack on for this story so I’ll try to make it sound of style too I left like the mainstream meet the mainstream sort of universe I wanted to create more so for me fulfillment comes in creation and I always say that like I’m a little bit of a junkie and my drug is uploading because if I haven’t posted a movie in like a month or month enough I get like seriously depressed and the only thing that like makes me happy is to get a new movie out there that answers your question right if you had to think of one word that’s most important to you or that sums you Apple so it would be like a little beacon hey believe nation if you want to know what the most important one word is for Tony Robbins Gary Vaynerchuk Oprah Winfrey will.
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