Confuse Them With Your Silence!
confuse them with your silence it seems
most times the problem we have with
ourselves as humans is the problem of
saying what is not yet ready to be put
forth we all seem to have this problem
and most times there are countless
reasons why we do this to make people
know that we are somebody who also has
his own worth
we try to make ourselves look big try to
talk others down and sometimes gain some
respect
aggressively some godlike reverence to
ourselves we’re ready to say everything
that can be said to have a stand on a
position that is of worth and make
people see us as important too and in
the process we say more than we actually
should have you ever thought of the
importance of silence have you ever
thought of the reason why you have been
given two lips and a brain to think the
main reason is for you to know by
reasoning the right time to talk and the
right time not to to be able to envisage
when our words are needed to be heard
and when we are to be silent even when
the situation and circumstances around
us seemingly want us to speak out yes
life can be a bit complicated and
demanding it can throw you off balance
and give you no reason to be illogical
however since you have no control over
many situations you do have control over
your own life look at yourself more than
you look and meditate on others saying
too much is providing an arsenal for you
to get hurt with your words being
mysterious on the other hand makes
people go the extra mile to be your
friend you don’t want to give them any
ammunition to attack be still in your
conversations and thoughts and keep the
people around you guessing keep them
wondering and looking over their
shoulder for you they will yell at you
if you do nothing you say nothing
they will come calling on you when you
do not want stay calm
say nothing you aren’t doing them a
favor you’re doing yourself a favor
hearing nothing from you will give them
much to think about when they want to
approach you you become that guy or that
girl that makes them feel unsure of
themselves
your silence disrupts their confidence
it breaks their flow of thought
regarding you they just don’t know how
to get to you anymore you don’t give
them any means or a reason to it’s like
a man who goes to a party with his
friends and doesn’t dance no one is
going to laugh at his dance moves why
because he hasn’t danced they will keep
coming up with ways to define you just
because you never provided them any
instead of you trying to give reasons as
to why you’re better and why they’re
wrong why not just keep quiet and
steadily work toward your dream bearing
in mind that you have a goal better than
the circumstances around you we’ve heard
the popular expression silence is the
best response to a fool the people
around you do not necessarily need to be
proven as fools because the whole
essence of going down your particular
path is for your own sake why don’t you
keep them confused by your silence keep
them entirely thinking about you while
you stay focused on your goals
nobody is you and that’s what makes the
difference the moment you start bearing
in mind nobody knows anything about you
is the moment you begin to understand
that talking to convince people about
who you are doesn’t really work you
don’t need to tell them who you are let
them find out don’t give them exactly
what they need to say about you let them
play the guessing game you do not
necessarily need to respond to anything
they say if they intend to draw out some
negative
action from you just leave them in
silence and let your actions do the
talking smile on and confuse them with
your choice of saying nothing all you’re
required to do is listen listen and let
them seek your voice let them find it
hard to figure you out what’s more fun
and giving people virtually nothing
revealing about you while you live your
life to the fullest thanks for watching
have a great and inspiring day
you
