Compromise to Joy | Motivational Speaker | Inspirational Video | Harrish Sairaman
a lot of times people also ask this question that why should I be the person to always change why should I be the person who should always compromise what if I lose my original behavior now to answer all these questions first of all don’t ever have the fear of losing your original behavior because up collisional IE kia whatever anyways you feel is original is something that you’ve picked up from your father mother neighbors teachers friends colleagues together is what you feel as an original behavior today so if the so called elusive original behavior is not giving you great results the best way is to change your behaviors and that’s why don’t hold on to something which is elusive called as original behavior there is nothing called as original behavior you might have a natural behavior you might have an adaptive behavior if the natural is not working in a particular relationship it is important that you must adapt to a new behavior which enhances that relationship the next question of course why should I always change and why should I always compromise now please understand changing is not equivalent to compromise it might look like that initially all if you’ve heard about this popular phrase which says when in Rome be like the Romans but let’s complete that phrase today and let’s add something to the entire phrase when in Rome be like the Romans why so that they accept you and once they accept you ready change their culture who cares the acceptance is important so compromise is only a compromise when you have changed and it does not produce the ideal result for you and that’s when people feel they’ve compromised like somebody gets married into a different cost into a different religion now the change for the family members but if they don’t see great responses is where they feel it’s a compromise let’s take an example when a change is not a compromise let’s say you’re traveling by flight for the first time in your life it’s you your spouse and your kid now the sector that you’re traveling in daytime as an amazing view so witzy do you idly want window now with seed does your spouse want window again and with seat does your kid want again window so let’s assume the seats that you’ve got are in a format in one row and the window seat that you have is one and you want it but if you give that window seat to your tint is that a compromise the answer is yes it is a compromise because you’re giving out something that you want it however if the joy of your kid is more joyful than you giving out what you wanted it no longer remains at a level of compromise which means if you want great results in life you are the one who’s gotta adapt and adapt and change in such a way that it produces eventually great results when it produces great results it’ll no longer be a compromise
