Best Motivational Video / Best Inspirational Video -TO BE DIFFERENT
often the easiest way to be different is to do things other people are unwilling to do so pick one thing other people won’t do it can be simple it can be small doesn’t matter whatever it is do it you will instantly be a little different from the rest of the pack then keep going every day think of one thing to do that no one else is willing to do after a week you will be uncommon after a month you will be special after a year you will be incredible and you definitely won’t be like anyone else sometimes people are hesitant sometimes they are insecure sometimes they are shy whatever the reason sometimes people will ask a different question than the one they really want you to answer one employee might ask whether you think he should take a few college courses what action he hope you will say you do and he hopes you will share the reasons why your spouse might ask if you thought the person at the party was fluttering with them what he or she really wants to know is if you still think they are threat worthy and attractive they hope you will say you do and will love when you share the reasons why behind many questions is an unasked question pay attention so you can answer that question too because that is the answer the other person doesn’t just want but needs the most paralyzing fear is fear of the unknown yet nothing ever turns out to be as hard or as scary as we think plus it’s incredibly exciting to overcome a fear you get that i can’t believe i just did that rash a thrill you may not have experienced for a long time every day do something a little scary whether physically or emotionally then trust that you will figure out how to overcome any problems that arise because you will you have plans you have goals you have ideas who cares you have nothing until you actually do something every day we let hesitation and uncertainty stop us from acting or our ideas pick one plan and one goal or one idea and get started just take one small step the first step is by far the hardest every successive step will be a lot easier i used to talk a lot i thought i was insightful and clever and witty and well a real hoot occasionally very occasionally i might even have been one of those things most of the time i was not truly confident people don’t feel the need to talk while i hide while i hate when it happens i still sometimes realize i’m not talking because the other person is interested in what i have to say but because i’m interested in what i have to say never speak just to please yourself when you do you please no one most of the time we should worry about what other people think but not if it stands in the way of living the lives we really want to live if you really want to start a business which you can do in just a few hours mind you but you are worried that people might say you are crazy do it anyway pick one thing you haven’t tried because you are concerned about what other people think or just say and just go do it it’s your life leave it your way i’m ashamed to admit but one of the best ways to motivate me is to insult me or for me to manufacture a way to feel insulted regardless of whether i am actually justified in feeling what that way or not justified is not the point feeling my motivation to do whatever it takes to prove the person wrong and more important to achieve what i want to achieve is all that matters call it artificial competitive competition or manufactured anger call it childish and immature call it creating perceived insults whatever you call it it works for me and it can work for you
